Well there is this boy my friend tried to hook me up with. I didn't like him that much until recently and now It's like I like him way too much. We talk but never actually traded numbers. On his myspace I got mad cause I hate his comments, he has comments from girls like looking good sexy and stuff and I dont like that. And on his myspace I seen his comments and this girl was like U are absoulutely right Ima call you tonight. I feel like okay a little hurt and she's on his top. He talks to me, but why would she put that on his comment board that's something you would put in a private message. So now if we ever go out, I feel like I cant trust him and Im gonna need to get his password and e-mail address for myspace to check up on him. I have a jealousy problem. But Is this way too much??
2006-11-09 15:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes...I'm a jealous person at times but in denial, I claim I'm protecting what's mine. If you aren't official and you're already and plotting on him you need to take a step back and casually date cause it's not going to go well. He's had those friends/girls on his myspace for a while most likely and some of them are probably just goofing around and some probably really like him more than a friend but will probably never get there with him. Relax, breathe in....and exhale. All is well, just stay calm and cool...I know it's hard but try not to let it get to you...why not leave him playfully sexy comments out in the open just to prove two can play at that game? You can't start out not trusting someone so start out by just hanging out and getting to know one another, let things happen naturally and if things don't click and you don't get the guy, then it wasn't meant to be. In the mean time, perhaps find other guys to hang out with and casually date until you become exclusive, if that's what you want.
2006-11-09 16:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
K!First step was to admitted that you have a Jealousy problem.Know scened flirt back at him.Don't go on to strong that would only scare him away.Almost do the same thing the other lady is doing.He might be gust trying to make Friends dint' forget that.
2006-11-10 00:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and he are not even an item and already you have issues. More to the point...why even become involved. I feel your issue is about yourself...not him. You seem to want to control a situation you are not even a part of. I suggest you take a look from within.
My objective is not meant to hurt, criticize or demean you...its only my opinion.
2006-11-10 00:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't like him so much, you just feel like your in competition with the other girls. You want to be the winner. But the problem is, you might win!
2006-11-10 00:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is kind of scary, but if i were in his shoes and i liked you, i owuldnt mind getting extra attention :) try to make him notice u more first
2006-11-10 00:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Deeds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the my space a rest.
2006-11-10 00:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋