So I have this friend who I work with and have known for about a year and he wants to become a "friend with benefits" what should I do?
2006-11-09 15:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by sarah_mccrea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say no! dont do it unless you guys are together and are exclusive or your gonna end up getting hurt
2006-11-09 15:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do "you" feel about it. If its to your bebefit, then go for it, if not, then just be friends. Is anyone married, and could it ruin any friendships, or cause anyone to be fired, or could it lead to a serious relationship. These are just a few things to think about. For me, I have a friend with benefits and it sure comes in handy, but it has to be a mutual thing and both parties have to agree to many rules. Good luck....
2006-11-10 00:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never found it a good idea to play where a person works. If there's a break up you are forced to see the person everyday! In addition your bring the emotional stuff to work and many employers frown on this.
2006-11-09 23:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, the "Friends with benefits" offer !! Guys ask that so they don't have to take you on a date, or even treat you good, cause in there mine your only one thing....sex...if you can handle that, then have at it. but, don't open your heart to him!! cause his minds on one thing.
And what happened to making him work for it, they respect you better!
2006-11-10 00:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he mean benifits. I have never heard of a guy offering to be friends with benefits. I would tell him to get lost!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-10 00:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by ruth4526 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. anyway friend with benefits doesn't have a happy ending.
2006-11-10 00:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by *~butterfly~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your choice, if you sorta of like then you can agree to it but if you don't just tell him you don't want to. Like I said you get to decide if your fine with it or not.
2006-11-09 23:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mysteriousfiend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. it never ends well trust me. one person always ends up getting really hurt, and the friendship never recovers
2006-11-09 23:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want respect for yourself say hell no.
otherwise get something out of it for yourself, cuz each time you give it up you give a piece of you up.
2006-11-09 23:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking us? Do you want to?
2006-11-09 23:58:56 · answer #10 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋