i'm dating, right
his is white and i'm black
and when we go out people stare at us
why is that?
and how can you deal with that?
2006-11-09 15:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by throttlegirl3000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ****!!!!!!!!!if you love him who cares what other people think
2006-11-09 15:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by pixie7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider this: Are you dating because you like each other or to please others? It's your life and you are at liberty to go out with anyone you fancy.
You yourself are the problem and not the others. You may think the others are looking at you but in actual fact, most people do not care too much about others but themselves and how their lives are affected. So just ignore them!
2006-11-09 16:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rise above it its not an issue its there issue and maybe that are staring cause you look so happy together.
go for it and dont let them get you down, people in my old town use to stare and me for wearing a hat.
be happy for who you are and the lovely man you have found.
2006-11-09 15:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by sexygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They stare at you because they are racist idiots - don't worry about them... just worry about you and your man.
Sadly, there still are stupid bigots who will judge people by the color of their skin, rather than the content of their character - just ignore them, and go on with your life...
2006-11-09 15:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre both young, hot and look great together...think that anyway. Who cares what they think. I dated a very dark african girl last year...she was smokin....oh yeah..she got the stares...I was proud.
2006-11-09 16:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ignore it. If it bothers you so much things are going to go bad for you. Its hard to do but that is all you can do. No use in ruining what you want to work. It is called jungle fever and people are still not use to seeing things like that.
2006-11-09 15:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worry, your not the first? if they stare at you two that just proves the ignorance of them... stare back, or just start making out with him... then they'll really stare! haha. life is short be happy!
2006-11-09 15:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by magdalina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRY ABOUT THAT AS LONG AS YOUR TOGETHER THEN I SHOULD BE FINE. ask him if he feels werid and talk.
2006-11-09 15:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋