I have been dating my bf for almost 3 yrs. I openly flirt with other guy, even his friends and when he's around. He doesn't mind he understands. My friend says that is cheating. Is it??
he's very loyal to me and i care about him. I just ejoy making his friends know what they want. Between me and my bff we have all those guys hooked plus our bfs. I still love him every bit i did when i met him, but love how his friends want what they can't have. He says he doesn't mind as long as it doesn't go past 1st base.
2006-11-09
15:45:10
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He just chucklesand walks to get another drink. He then brings it back and we just walk away and the guy is just standing there. they usually ask me out by the end of the night.
2006-11-09
15:55:26 ·
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You're just asking for trouble. Let me ask you this:
Would you wig out on him if he was doing that to your friends?
That's what I thought!
2006-11-09 15:53:28
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answered by 2Good4U 4
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It sound like two immature children playing at having a relationship to me. You should not need to turn anyone else on if you are in a mature relationship Grow up and then get into a real relationship. Do you tell the people that you are only playing with their emotions or are you cowardly being the bi*** that you are writing about?
2006-11-09 23:53:23
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think it is cheating after all it is a decission made by you both!
I think one day you might meet a guy that get's the wrong impression and that might be dangerous for you so, please becareful! I think it spices up you relationship and makes things fresh. Meaning not the same old thing day in and day out . I like the other guys to notice me because, I think it makes my guy want me even more!
2006-11-09 23:53:32
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answered by MagikButterfly 5
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Personally I would not enjoy my "special person" flirting with others...especially my friends. I think it is shallow and inconsiderate, even if he does say he doesn't mind. Being an outsider, I question your true motives. I mean what is your purpose? Is not the relationship in itself satisfying? If he did this constantly would you be happy with his actions?
To me the issue is not about cheating...its about respect!
I would like to share this with you. "Never do to someone what you would not like done to yourself".
2006-11-10 00:00:25
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answered by Robere 5
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WELL I DONT THINK THAT THIS IS CHEATING BUT I WOULD HAVE TO SAY THAT IT MAKES YOU LOOK SORT OF SLEAZY FOR THROWING YOURSELF AROUND LIKE A LITTLE CHEAP THRILL. YOU MIGHT BE LOOKING AT IT AS IF YOU'RE TURNING THESE GUYS ON OR SOMETHING BUT THEY MIGHT SEE YOU AS IF YOU ARE EASY. THIS PROBABLY MAKES YOUR BF LOOK LIKE A REAL WIMP.
2006-11-09 23:55:17
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answered by misskashmere 2
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if you feel the need for so much male attention from guys other than your bf then you dont care for him as much as you say you do
good luck with everything and smile big
2006-11-09 23:53:37
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answered by Shorty 4
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if he's ok with you doing that,then that's not cheating....but if he does care about you doing that,then i would say yes that's like cheating,kind of.
2006-11-10 01:46:39
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answered by pinky 2
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flirting is not a big deal..men enjoy it when their woman looks good and his friends are gagaa over her..but just dont let it get to any base at all..
2006-11-09 23:52:18
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answered by sinful vampyra 4
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i dont think it is but only if ur bf is ok with it and u make shure it dosent go passed 1st base.
2006-11-09 23:52:12
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answered by Anonymous
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if your boyfriend don't care then i guess its fine but if you were my girl i would not let you degrade yourself like that because that is making you come off as a sl?t. thats my opion
2006-11-09 23:51:20
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answered by jam 3
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