Or are they just really interested in how a girl looks instead of what she can bring to the table? Would they be interested in someone that is funny , laid back, educated and cultured? or should we turn ourselves into women that look alike and our only goal is to show as much skin as possibel?
2006-11-09 15:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by kaiya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a great question.... and requires more thought than what most people want to put into it. I think that most guys want a girl that they find physically attractive but they also want someone who will be a loyal partner. Men do not want a woman that is smarter than they are in their area of expertise. Most men could care less about a sense of humor because they laugh at their own jokes even when they are not funny. If a woman appears too cultured or educated then they see her as a prude and stuck up. Most men do like skin to look at but only if they look at it. They want a woman they can be proud of and show off. But women have to be careful not to show off too much. I guess the bottom line is to try and be yourself as much as possible and don't get lost in what others want but keep your eyes on what YOU want in a man!
2006-11-09 15:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by ru.barbie2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone sounds jaded.............depends on the guy you are talking about. I think the majority of guys are looking for intelligent, talented, humorous, cultured, conversationalists; unfortunately quite a few out there are just looking for a hot body. Looks are important to everyone to form the basis for an initial attraction, but for most men looks and looks alone will not keep them interested.
2006-11-09 15:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by strokesfanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer the smart, funny, and laid back. Its more interesting that way where just seeing a girl showing alot of skin doesnt keep my curiousity for that long.
2006-11-10 05:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by JoeDraco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of guy you are looking for. If you just want some guy to bang and to treat you like crap go ahead with the cheap hooker look. They are a bunch of kids anyway. If you are looking for a relationship I would suggest that you dress the otherway, I am not saying you should dress like some old school marm but there is nothing wrong with dressing nice. You will attract the kind of guy you want
2006-11-09 15:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by NEED HELP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am going to be in a serious relationship, I would say those are probably the 2 most important traits a girl needs. If I was just looking for a good time those are important, but not really
2006-11-09 15:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to initial attraction, looks are everything. After that they count less and less.
So to get a guy you need to look great. To keep a guy, for him to be happy in a long term relationship, that is about personality. When a relationship becomes completely subjective a guy no longer knows if you are attractive or not, you become who you are, not what you are.
2006-11-09 15:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not be both and be the best of both worlds. i personally am fed up with most girls in my classes at school. either they are dumb and hot or smart and not hot. a smarter one doesn't have to be as hot as a dumb one. also i cant stand really dumb girls or annoying ones.
on a second not. yes, i know i kinda sound like an asshole that isnt smart. muahahha
2006-11-09 15:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definetly someone who is funny, laid back, educated, and cultured.
looks arent really a big factor unless your extremely ugly
2006-11-09 15:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I like women that are smart and funny,laid back, educated and cultured....ok
2006-11-09 15:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
2006-11-09 15:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋