only serious answer please,
2006-11-09 15:36:33 · 13 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. It shows character. Also a past comes with baggage.
2006-11-09 15:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is a virgin, make sure you really care about her. Once a girl gives that away, she can't get it back and it can affect the rest of her life and the way she looks at men and sex if she felt used. Being a virgin most men would like I'd think, cause they are the first and she never had anyone else before them. But it shouldn't matter one way or the other. Just be gently, caring and go slow.
2006-11-09 23:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. virginity, i my opinion, only matters to someone who doesn't know the difference between love and sex. our society has made virginity into a badge of some kind of honor. in other societies virginity is a disgrace (Indonesia, a man is payed to "deflower" a girl..ancient Greece, virgin men were disgraced by the women). virginity in a girl was also used as proof that the woman would only bear the legitimate children of a men so property was kept safe in the family. example: when princess Di married prince Charles, doctors had to prove she was a virgin to protect the blood line of the monarchy
2006-11-09 23:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by oldguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as you get older dude it doesnt matter. i think the only reason guys like girls being virgins is cos the girl has nothing to compare him with. so he can give a shocking performance and she wont know better. think of it this way, would you be confident settling down with a girl who was a virgin when you met her so many years ago. dont you think she would wonder what it would be like with other guys. that would eventually make her unfaithful.
2006-11-09 23:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If shes a virqin... thats more emotional strain on you when its done thats somethinq qirls hold sacred or NEVER forqot who they first slept with so make sure you are really committed if she is a virqin before doing nothing because she will always be after you and it can and WILL get annoying if you dont have feelings for her no more
2006-11-09 23:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by la la x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was a virgin till i was 22 and in my experiences with guys during that time most ran as soon as they found out
2006-11-09 23:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't care if she is a vigin as long as we like each other. my girl is not a virgin and we are happy together so what dose it matter as long as she ant sleeping with every guy out there i wouldn't care.
2006-11-09 23:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by jam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-11-09 23:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by .Cami.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt matter at all..
On the contratry i would perfer non virgin.. since shes got experience
2006-11-09 23:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes
2006-11-09 23:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋