i want to be fair and good looking. iam an Indain.?

Question

Iam a Indain male. iam a man of very low esteemed because of my dark complexion. Iam not very v black, but from the time of my adolescent iam conscious of skin colour. I wished to be white and attactive to the opposite sex. This problem goes on for more than 35 years. How to over come it? How to be attractive as Iam?

Answer 1

I really feel bad that you're ashamed of your skin color.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being black (or any other color) - you have got to realize that. If a girl doesn't like you because of your dark complexion, she's a racist idiot - and you need to find a girl who likes dark skinned men (or, better yet, a girl who doesn't care about color)

Answer 2

you need help not any fairness mantra.understand this that our individuality and our personality are factors that affect our social life.you live in a dreadful misconception of thinking that its your dark skin thats keeping you away from the pleasures of life.first of all start respecting yourself.why are you so obsessed with fair skin!if your family had darkl skin like ash would you not love them!if your frnds were dark black ppl would you leave them?our colour of skin should be our pride not our shame!if you think fair skinned guys are handsome and attractive then you are wrong!many of the fair skinned guyys are tagged of being gays, or flirts.looks are nothin at least not in todays world unless you are in the entertainment business!being an indian you must be knowing gandhiji, ambani and tata!well if i ask you their skin colour would you be able to tell me precisel their shade and their beauty.on the other hand if i ask you what they did i think any aira gera naththu gera would know the answer.our holy books tell us that a man is known by what he practices not by what he wears.you are insecure and the reason you dont attract the opposite sex is because you have the attitude of a born loser who blames his failure on such stupid reasons.be a man and face up life.dont hide behind excuses!your skin colour wont get you anything in life!but a good career, financial stability, sensitivity and sensibility will!good luck man!

Answer 3

You may have had to hear taunts from your peers as well as your friends which is one of the reasons you are more conscious about your color. There are a lot of dark skinned people out there. Look at Morgan Freeman, Kofi Annan. If the issue here is about being attractive to the opposite sex, are you willing to date a girl who is dark skinned?? If the answer is no, then a prejudice exist within you. Lastly be thankful that you are a normal & able bodied human being.....

Answer 4

you should be comfortable with yourself. there is nothign you can really do to change your skin color. im sure people are attracted to you. maybe you just need to get out more. make more friends join some clubs, join a bowling team or something =)

most women are most attracted to personalities of guys then you fall in love with what they look like. you will find the right woman someday. maybe you shoudl talk to a therapist to figure out why your self esteem is low other than your skin color

please cheer up. skin color can lower your self esteem. im pasty white. people always make fun of me! even my bf held up a piece of white paper and laughed aying "haha your the same color as the paper!" i alwasy feel uncomfortable with wearing a skirt or a swim suit in the summertimet though. but the only thing you can do is accept who you are and dont be ashamed of your skin color whether you are made fun of your not.

be comfortablein your own skin!! =)

cheer up please
good luck

Answer 5

Hey dude. concentrate yourself on making your soul beautiful.If u think that if you will be fair n ppl will get attracted to you its not correct. Gain some confidence.A person is known from the beauty inside not outside.Attractive personality posseses good communication skill, a good soul n some times a good physique. if u wann be attractive change the way u talk n also u can do smthing to gain a good health n physique.

Answer 6

some of the darkest men can be very attractive. look at some of our world models and actors. dont have to be whiter to be sexy or have a great look. the most appeal someone can have is personality. look at the way you look. yr appearance. yr hair style the clothes you wear that can make you a different person just by changing those. white ppl want to be tanned and darker want to be whiter this is crazy. i think most indians have very good features. good luck anyway

Answer 7

Hi,
First of all you should increase your self confidence, white skin doesnt promise anything moreover its going to loose its charm in a due course of time irrespective of its colour,all you need is a bit of success in your life,concentrate on your life, have some success other things will come automatically,take care.

Answer 8

I love Indian.The man are better looking to my option..If you want to be attractive you have to start looking inside yourself God or gods put you on this earth for a reason.You don't want to be anybody else but gust yourself.Remember to always look inside you.AM gust Turing 34 And I get down but I still am happy with me.From you new friend.Don't forget to smile it make your day go faster.

Answer 9

Embrace who you are
don't ever be ashaimed of how you look.
The most attractive quality in the world isnt light skin, or light hair....its confidence.
When you have confidence and accept yourself as you are...everyone can see it. It changes your whole personality...the whole way you carry yourself...the way you project yourself to the world.
Many women find dark complexions attractive.
But you have to learn to love yourself
good luck to you...cheer up.
...I'm sure you're beautiful

Answer 10

just because you're dark complection doesnt mean you're automatically unattractive. personally as a white woman, i am attracted to people of all races....because a lot of the time people who are black or indian are good looking too. dont let your skin color stand in your way of being happy. many good women dont care about skin color anyways, and if they are then they are bitchy racist women who arent worth dating anyways.