There was this girl and her friends begged me to go to homecoming with her so i did. Shortly after she started to talk **** about me for no reason. All ive ever done is be nice and sweet to her. Today i bitched her out real bad and i know it was really horrible, but it sure did let off a whole bunch of steam. I mean, i never really liked her, but i still did the best i could to make sure we both had an awesome time but she blew me off. I kinda think this was a mistake but it made me feel so much better. Shud i have done that? Yeah, i did it very personally criticizing her weight because she is fat and her stupidity cuz she is really dumb. oh, btw, i bitched her out on AIM
2006-11-09 15:25:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she deserved it. Don't feel bad... But I think you should have done it in person.
*hugs*
2006-11-09 15:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by misschaos489 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my feelings are hurt, I can think of all kinds of creative ways to get my revenge on the person that I felt did me wrong. I'm full of rage and anger and want to strike out at the person.
But I have learned with time that the best revenge is to make believe the person that harmed me does not exist. My real friends don't believe lies that are told about me and I already know how my enemies feel.
It's over now. Leave it alone. If she talks bs about you so what? I don't let too much negative energy enter my world. Let anyone blah, blah all they want.
2006-11-09 23:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was really bad! Do you realise that you just bitched her out again, "criticizing her weight because she is fat...". You should be the bigger man and not criticise her. She obviously has her own problems so just ask her why she bagged you. Maybe she is just doing it to make herself feel better, people with low self-esteem often do that. If you ***** about her it will eventually come back to you.
2006-11-09 23:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jono H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you didn't have anything else to call her on, so you had to make fun of her weight and intelligence? That's not cool. Also, maybe you should have been the bigger person and let it slide. You don't like her right? So why do you care?! Maybe too you should have chirped her out in person ... you didn't have the courage to tell her to her face? I feel sorry for you. Two wrongs never make a right.
2006-11-09 23:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by ~*KaRmA*~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what she said to you but im sry u sound like you really tried to make it a good night. as for what you said about her, commenting about a girls weight is always bad espicaly if she really does have a problem with it. You could have really hurt her but if she thats what you needed to do to get her to stop bitching about u than i guess u did what u had to. Sry i dont have any more to tell you. Good luck!
2006-11-09 23:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Soccer Chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it may have been mean but she should not have talked bad about u and if she didnt like u why did she go with u anyway but im sure u are a nice guy shejust hurt your pride its ok you had to get it off your chest but dont make a habbit out of it lol
2006-11-09 23:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true, then you probably have reason to be mad. Personally I wouldn't go so far as to call her fat and stupid, that is pretty rough and isn't really the reason you are upset anyways. But feel free to voice your irritation about how she acted.
2006-11-09 23:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people u just can't be nice to no matter how hard you try. She will realize her mistake one day and hopefully you will salvage what little friendship you had, if not oh well you win some and you lose some but I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
2006-11-09 23:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you doing that to her just stooped you to her level and made you look like you are upset cause she doesn't like you. You should of ignored her and acted like it didn't matter cause you didn't like her anyways. To trash her weight is cruel, that stays with some women for years. Live and learn but you made yourself look desperate and pityful. You should appologize and act like it's no big deal if we don't date.
2006-11-09 23:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very immature. Sinking to others level's is never wise or recommended. It lowers your self worth as much as their's.
2006-11-09 23:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by btij06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋