i have an ex bf, his talking to me now, he broke up with me cause i was saying he was on drugs and he wasent, but i thought he was cheating on me, but anyway that was along time ago, and everytime he see's me he smiles, his been calling me, and he came over, across the street. and he took his shirt off and came over talking to me., like telling me that he likes me but doesent wont a relationship right now, and he likes me, and he asked me who's the top 5 boys i like, and he even called the next day and at school he looks at me, smiles, waves, and shows off.... so he has to like me right>??? what should i do
2006-11-09 15:03:35 · 14 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, he likes you. Just be yourself and be casual and friendly with him. Since he's telling you he doesn't want a relationship right now it could be one of two things. One is that he really doesn't want to be in a relationship. The other is that he's testing the waters to see what you'll say, like, "Oh, I wish WE were in a relationship again!" Either way, let him be the one who does all of the "relationship" talk right now - just continue to be friendly and casual. Eventually he'll either let you know he doesn't want to be an ex anymore, or you'll discover that he really means he doesn't want to be in a relationship. Good luck!
2006-11-09 15:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sarah, I have 2 question: Why did you think he was on drugs?? You had a reason why you thought that way. Druges will lie right to your face and you will think they are telling the true. So why do you think he wasn't on drugs? Because he told you. About cheating, usually when someone things their parnter is cheating,they probably are. You can sense something isn't right.Their personality and the way they act are different.Sarah i wouldn't get involve with him this time. There just something not right here. Watch your back with this one. A Friend.
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2006-11-09 15:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to see what you are going to do first before he puts himself out there like his feelings. As to tellingyou what to do I can only tell you what I would do. Well first let me address the drug and cheating thing. If you heard it through the great cine that he was on drugs or that he was cheating on you, yes the the right thing to do is ask him , not accuse him because that probaly made him go into defense mode. ok anyway what i would do is confront him. Ask him what he is trying to do. Its all in the way you say it...be like, "I see you smiling and flirting with me so whats up with you..whats on your mind." Then see what he says he will probaly fish for more information but dont give him no more than he gives you. If you can lead him on with out getting your own feelings involved until you know for sure what he wants. I hope that I helped.
2006-11-09 15:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't rather do lots yet talk and harm it right down to ur ex-boyfriend, permit him understand that he's the previous and that the different guy's ur new BF, permit him understand that he can't administration the individuals u bypass out with. U ought to permit him understand the real deal, ur ex-boyfriend's jealous of ur modern-day BF, he can't stand to be sure u with somebody else. So purely permit him understand how u sense and what ever surpassed off between u 2 is the previous now.
2016-10-03 11:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in this situation i would just play it cool let everything flow, dont rush into a relationship so fast. u already gave it a try once so let it be this time. from the way it sounds like he still got feelings for u then obviously u doing something right. just go with the flow. i hope my advice helps u?? good luck, ki~ki
2006-11-09 15:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt go out with him again anytime soon. I mean he did tell you that he liked you but didnt want to be in a relationship. Just be his friend im sure he'll like you even more and eventually he will want a relationship with you.
2006-11-09 15:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is saying he doesn't want a relationship I think we are safe in assuming that he doesn't like you enough. My guess is either he is trying to make you like him so he can blow you off and hurt you like you hurt him or that he just wants sex. I would stay clear of him.
2006-11-09 15:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends. do you like him too? If you do, then have a fresh start. but if he does not want a relationship, why is he acting like that? i think his lying. he wants to be with you. if not, just think of him as a very overactive friend.
2006-11-09 15:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by carloveits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him like the plauge. I smell bad news here for some reason.....
2006-11-09 15:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Stay away from him, he's your ex for a reason.
2006-11-09 15:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋