I think it is, and I think I'm wierd.
My best friend has had 6 boyfriends and she thinks it's weird I've never had a boyfriend. Even her boyfriend thinks its weird. He said he can't belive I don't have a boyfriend because he knows any guy would want to be my boyfriend. Sure, I've been asked out before by a guy, but I've rejected them because I didn't like him. This has happened 3 times with 3 different guys. I don't think the reason this is happening to me is because I have no perosnality. Because my friends tell me I'm really fun to be with, and I have a great sense of humor. Also, my best friend's boyfriend said that I was pretty and that was even more shocking to the fact I nver had a boyfriend.
So, I just don't get it. Guys never running to me like my best friend. While she is out getting boyfriends and stuff, I'm all alone. And it makes me feel bad.
2006-11-09 15:02:12 · 34 answers · asked by ♫MizzUnderstood♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THANK YOU for asking this question. i will soon be 15 and am in the EXACT same situation...ive been asked out before but the guys always seem annoying and i want a bf. no, you're not weird, atleast i hope, b/c this culture is just getting annoying. not everyone needs a relationship so early, and though i really wish i had my first kiss and am kind of depressed about it, i kind of think of it this way(though i wish i'd ACTUALLY believe it myself): by the time i get my first kiss the guy im with will be mature and it will probably be a magical night...i just wish i wouldn't have to WAIT so long! well good luck and come talk to me if you find a way to overcome this problem(just answer one of my questions)
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p.s. i just editied this...and actually some of the ppl who said u were strange i went and commented on, b/c i think it is RIDICULOUS to have had your first kiss at 5, doesn't that sound a bit stupid? you'll find a nice guy who would rather be with a nice girl than a girl who thinks its more important to have been a baby prostetute than a lady...especially a smart lady....just go to school and be the best you can be...then, in 10 years, when you are making lots of $ and you're friend is a hooker, your husband and you can talk about how strange SHE is. hehe good luck!<3
2006-11-09 15:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
There's nothing strange about that at all, heaps of girls are 15 and have not had a boyfriend yet, what's the pressure?
If you've had boys ask you out, then obviously it's not a problem with your personality, you sound like you're being smart and not going out with just anyone! You have to actually LIKE them!
Don't feel bad, you have good friends and that's the most important thing. When you choose a boyfriend, it should be someone that you really like to be around, you need to be best friends, that's how you make it work. It'll happen in no time. Just wait until you find some guy you really like :-)
Till then, relax, have fun!
2006-11-09 15:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wierd at all. As for your friend,she may get the boyfriends now, but you will probably get all the fellas later on. You can enhance your chances of that happening sooner. Men like confidence and when they see a woman with it its a turn on. I guarantee you your friend has confidence in herself and might even be a bit of a flirt. (just observe her one day)Try to exude (show) some confidence in yourself. Flirt a little bit if you dont already. I dont mean excessively, just a lil bit. Since youve never had a boyfriend you might as well start teasing. Dont be too much of a tease as that can come out not so good. At the end of all this do continue to be yourself or if you havent been then now is the time to start. I think in short period of time youll be alright.
2006-11-09 15:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing strange about it. Maybe your just an introvert and can only open up to your friends and people u trust. There is nothing wrong with that at all. However, I think you should atleast make friends with the opposite sex and don't sweat the fact that your bestfriend tends to be in and out of love like it's recreational sport. Take your time with the kissing cos it may lead to something else (u have so much time later in life for that) and it's so refreshing to hear there are still 15 year old innocent ones out there!!! Two thumbs up.
2006-11-09 15:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend at 15 isn't all it's cracked up to be. I had my first boyfriend at 14 and I wish I would have waited a little longer. It's okay that you turned those guys down, don't let your friend pressure you into having a boyfriend. Wait until you find someone you really like. Even if you have to wait until you're 18, it's totally worth it!
2006-11-09 15:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. In fact there are people older than you who are in the same boat (like me ^_^). Besides, there are bunches of teen girls who aren't allowed to date until they're 16 so more girls your age are in that boat than you think!
What I think is weird is if your friend is 15 how in the heck did she go through so many boyfriends already? What, do they all last a week or something? lol
Don't feel bad, my sister has a lot of guy friends and guys that want to date her, and I don't. It doesn't really bother me cause I don't compare myself to her in that way. Who knows, you might get a boyfriend next year! (or next month.)
Like someone said earlier don't rush!
Enjoy being single cause it does have it's upsides!
2006-11-09 15:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not strange, i think your strange to think that it's ok to have 6 bf at such a young age.
What's the rush ??? So think about it the more you have been kissed and used by multiple guys the less appealing you will be to a guy looking for a serious relationship.
And most of those guys you will never see them again in 20 years anyway, so why sell yourself so cheap to guys who are total jerks who just want to have you for a couple of months just for sex
2006-11-09 15:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are young and i bet you get this alot, most guys want to have someone on thier arm cause of the peer pressure. Make sure that you are a well respected lady. YOu dont know if he is after your heart or your panties. Make sure you are a respected individual and not looked upon as the door knob. But if you truly want to be with someone take care of yourself and make sure you find the right guy.
2006-11-09 15:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by hawk1674 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was nearly 16. There is nothing weird about it at all.
My sister once said to me, around your age, that it is not that guys don't like you, but they feel you are too good for them. I didn't believe her at the time, 12 months later a couple of guys friends told me that too.
I am sure guys do like you, they are just afraid that you are too good for them. Your turn will come, so there is nothing to worry about
2006-11-09 15:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down...if you think that 15 is bad...it was till only about a month ago till i had my first kiss and I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend...shocking enough?....i blame it on catholic school....but you have a lot of time.....just dont go for any guy because you want a boyfriend...wait for someone that you will enjoy being with.
2006-11-09 15:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋