I'm dating this girl (for almost two months), and when I ask her to do something she is always up for it, but never asks me to do anything. I kiss her, and she's receptive, but not really into it. She says she's attracted to me and enjoys our conversation. I asked what she was doing this weekend and she said she has lots of homework, and I said I will see her in class next Thursday, she said o.k not seeming to care....So, do you think she wants/like this relationship or should I dump her and move on? Or is she looking to dump me?
2006-11-09 14:56:55 · 8 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are girls whenever they're in a relationship, it was like nothing for them but inside, they really care for the relationship. I think you two lack proper communication so you are somewhat unsure of your erlationship with her.
Talk to her and tell her about what you think.. Tell her that you are not offending her or something but you are a bit uneasy the way your relationship is turning. Clear out if she is still happy with you.. are you still happy with your GF? Remeber.. Communication is the main criteria of all relationships.. Lack of it also lack intimate relations..
Goog luck then
2006-11-09 15:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you are gonna hate me saying this, but you are both young. and have alot to learn! she isnt playing games with you, she just isnt the type of girl that will take control of the situation. she will sit back and let you take charge. thats how it will be. she wont change. i know how you feel though cos i once dated a girl that i had to make all the decision on what to do and where to go. she would even ask me what she should wear. after 6 months or so, i had enough.
2006-11-09 23:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a lack of communication to me, you should try to get her to open up to you and see if you're the problem or if she has some other conflict within herself that she needs to take care of before she can be in a healthy relationship with anyone...
if that doesn't work you should just move on, if she has too many problems that she can't deal with while with you, let her go and try to figure them out and then you could try again later if that's a possiblity.
good luck. <3
2006-11-09 23:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by hey hey. i'm here to stay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be a bit more aggressive. When she said she had tons of homework you should've offered to help her. She is being ambivalent because you are. Step up your game.
2006-11-09 23:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by donnabbb43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be looking to dump you but you aint floatin her boat.
Turn it around or be prepared for more bored responses.
2006-11-09 22:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is still alittle immature. she is still learning about relationships. read tips on dating and relationships that will help you better on this site
2006-11-09 22:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump move on but she wants to b ur friend. so wat u do is say i dont think im realllly into u and i think wed b better friends than girl/boyfriend. so move and shell understand. no offense but her mind is somwhere else.
2006-11-09 23:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her straight
2006-11-09 22:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by pierre m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋