I had a friend that was down on her luck so I let her move in here with her two girls.
Well she hooked up with the guy across the street and moved in with him.
Well over the weekend she went on a Crack binge. I had no idea that she had a crack problem or I never would have let het through the front door.
Well she didn't go home Friday or Saturday night. Her boyfriend called her sister and she was coming to pick up the girls on Sunday morning if she still wasn't home. Well Sunday morning around ten or so she finally came home.
Her brother was there looking for her and he is a piece of crap too. Anyways he tackled her for her keys and here come the cops in my front yard as usual. Anyways because of her stupid habit the cops searched my house because she took off. They found her in about ten minutes because a guy came around and asked if they were looking for this girl. He said that he dropped her off at CVS. I took care of the girls 2 & 3 on Saturday.
2006-11-09 14:43:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Well her sister came to pick up the kids so she hid them at the neighbors. She then came back with her whole family sitting there and got her kids.
Well I call her today and her boyfriend answers the phone and hangs up on me. So I went across the street and asked him what I did wrong to him. He says that it is all my fault because after she did the crack binge she went and picked up my ex-husband to go get his script for Loratab. Well I don't feel responsible for this because she could have told him no. She got pills from him.
I am Bipolar and now all of this is my fault. It is my fault that she stayed gone for two days smoking crack.. I don't do that S***. Now her boyfriend is calling me a F****** B**** and to top it off he went to my boyfriends house and when I called my boyfriend he tells me that he had the phone on speaker and that her boyfriend heard everything that I said. I thought that would be confidential. I feel betrayed and hurt can someone help me out here
2006-11-09 14:50:08 · update #1
Don't bother. It's not your problem. You need to get rid of your boyfriend. If he is going to take a crack heads side over yours it's not worth it. Get them out of your life and let them deal. Cut your losses and move on. If you're bipolar you have your own issues to worry about rather than crackheads and crappy boyfriends. Call CPS, they will investigate and take her kids away (hopefully). Then tell them to f*** off and move the f*** on.
2006-11-09 15:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Celleira 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 08:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by eth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's amazing that you are able to keep on going with a "friend" like this. The fact that you were able to look after her two very little girls is a testimony to your endurance. Are you unable to find any medication that you can tolerate or do you choose not to take any. I have found that what I'm taking is helpful but I still sometimes have to up the anti-anxiety meds (a choice I am given) when things get especially uncertain. I just wish that the meds that I'm on would keep the anxiety from creeping in but this is not always the case. All I can say is that if I had a weekend like you described I would feel like crap too! It sounds like this person doesn't give a F**** about anyone but herself and she involved you in a way that you should never have been involved. Have you thought of doing something nice for yourself - even if it is just going for a walk and getting some fresh air or going to the mall and looking in the shops? Whatever it is that you like to do give yourself that time as a present. You shouldn't have to feel like crap all of the time. Yes, I frequently feel like crap but I'm trying to find new ways to get myself out of it. You sound like a person who is a good friend and you should never be taken advantage of like that.
2006-11-09 15:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for taking her in at all. And I am so sorry for what you now have to endure. My only advice is to turn her into family services. Let them know what all has happened. They will take the kids from her and put them in a safe, clean home and force her to get help. They will not let her have her kids back until that happens. The only thing you can do now is worry about the kids. They are the ones suffering the most. This is called tough love. Yes, they will hurt initially but they will very quickly see that its the best for them.
Good luck to you
2006-11-09 14:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad situation. First everyone needs to be taking there own meds. Second anyone sober and sane needs to take that girls kids and care for them. As for you I think you and yours need to stay away from them. You have enough problems of your own with out hers. If you surround your self with crack heads you are not doing yourself any good. Go find some sober non-drug using friends. That's all I have to say on that.
2006-11-09 15:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rethink your parameters on picking friends..a good tip is: if they have been having alot of trouble with getting their life in-order and they say its everyone's fault but their own..then thats a tip-off that they are absolving themselves of responsibility for the things they do or will do...and they will be blaming you next! (also, you didn't quite ask a question.) P.S. for the kids- call social-services and, then have no more to do with these people before they pull you into their mess and cause you hurt
2006-11-09 14:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by paradigm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont care what she does because she made that choice and we all have choices and she chose to do crack instead of coming and taking care of her kids she dont need her kids and sonebody needs to take them kids from her untill she can get off the crack because crack is more important than her kids she has shown that and its loud and clear , and jail is probally the best thing that could happen to her right now because she has no self controll i cant stand people like that i just cant understand how you can say **** on your kids and kiss and hug on a crack pipe .
2006-11-09 14:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stop pitying people long ago they can get u in a world of mess..get a restraining order,,and ur not resposible,,and those kids should be in state agency or foster care away from the crazy mother
2006-11-09 14:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some new friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why are you hanging out with a bunch of losers?????????????? and worse yet why do you care what a bunch of losers think??????? seriously it's time to move on find new friends and a new boyfriend if he doesn't want to move on with you.
2006-11-09 14:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't involve yourself with her at all . if she bugs you more and more tell the police and let children's aid now about the crack
2006-11-09 16:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋