Don't have jobs? I know (and i'm one of them) that a lot of women prefer not to date men that don't have jobs. For me, it's not because I want him to have money to buy me things, because I pay for my own stuff....it's mainly because I don't want to end up paying for his. Is it the same way in reverse? How do you men feel about dating women, that aren't working or is it not really as big a deal for you? I know that every situation is different....and circumstances aren't the same for everyone.
2006-11-09 14:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, i'm not referring to those that are in college or getting an education, because that's a totally different case.
2006-11-09 14:14:20 · update #1
A mature woman with no job
I can think of three situations
She is in between jobs, I would date her
She is rich does not need to work, I would date her
She is lazy (no aspirations in life), I would not date her
2006-11-09 14:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always what we want, we could be Harvard graduated for all they care and they still won't give you a job.
If a woman doesn't have a job it doesn't matter for me, i do want a intelligent, responsible woman and not one who will go out all night long on my expense NO WAY !!!
I'll help her out till she gets a job or help her to qualify for a job, i know a woman wants to work and get her own earned money too so i will help her out in any way i can.
2006-11-09 22:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by speedster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's about the same for the men that want to settle down, yet you still have those that only want sex, and for those it don't matter. See I'm from the old school, I'd want to do for my woman and let her do for me, but all men don't think the same as I do.
2006-11-09 22:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make sense, however, it's the woman that aren't satisfied with us men that have jobs that "only" pay $60K a year that bothers me the most. They look down on us like we are janitors or something.....
2006-11-09 22:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by HonestGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll date a woman without a job, no problem. I don't believe that a person's merit is based on what they do for a living.
2006-11-09 22:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not me. Relationships are suppose to be 50/50. There is no way that could happen if someone isn't working (unless your independently wealthy or something)
2006-11-09 22:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I go to school & work so my money is preciousto me.....
but on the other the hand if your my gurl it doesn't matter to me....
but if we are talking the first evening is on me ..... then after that your on your own!!!!
2006-11-09 22:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by RoYaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in terms of just dating (nothing serious) and was just an occasional "bootie-call", sure why not. i'd have to pretty dam horny and desperate though.
personally, i like independent women, who can take care of themselves and their kids (if they have any).
i hate lazy dependent weak women.
2006-11-09 22:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Pizza Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋