What do you do or say if you got a boyfriend that want you to have S.E.X.. with but you are not ready. See I am a verigen in I am not ready for that big step just yet I mean I got my hole life to do that I am just 15 1/2 years old. In he already know how I feel about that and he just like to through that into my face in I just can't take it. But I love him so much in I can do it but I can't.In what if he want you to go down on him. But I told him hell noooooooooooo!!!!!!!!
Because I wan't that type of girl.
So my question is what should do about it?
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2006-11-09 14:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by lil crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do it. If he loves you he will understand if not then he;s not worth having
2006-11-09 14:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him to respect your decission or hit the road. You are not in love no matter what you think. You are way too young for this sort of relationship. You are smart enough to know it so be smart enough to know that he is not the one. If you have said no and he keeps bringing it up he does not love you no matter what he says. Go down on him? Why? Tell him to do it himself. You need to dump this guy before you wind up 16 and pregnant with him long gone for good. Baby you do not need this creep you are a virgin, that is what he wants some guys collect virgins. Do not become a trophy. and remember you can get pregnant even if it is the first time and only once.
Do not fall for any of that "Trust me" stuff or "I'll pull out in time" There are many many people walking around today because their mothers listened to that crap from their fathers. Don't for get having sex is asking for a baby. You might not get one, but you might.
2006-11-09 22:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel him "If you realy love me, you would wait until we get married, if we get married. I am not ready to take that step in life yet. I want whoever I make babies with to be there for me, always. I don't want him to run off if I get pregnant. If you realy love me, you will care enough to be there and stick around. I want you to make me a promise before I come to that next step in life, and I really do love you, and hope that you will have the pateince and guts to stick around, and be commited." If He disagrees, dump him! If he isn't willing to wait until he makes a perminant comitment, he isn't worh your time, espesially if he just wants to hit the bed with you. I wish you the best!
2006-11-09 22:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetfire101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not do it, as a father of a 15 year old i hope you girls have enough self esteem that you know what is important and right for you,don't give into the peer preasure. if he is a good guy he'll wait til your ready and if he is a jerk about it then you don't need to be with him find some one else who is nice enough to listen to you
2006-11-09 22:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by meatmane8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to stick to your guns, because that is what YOU want to do. Me i wish i had waited a bit longer, but i lost my virginity at 18, because i was peer pressured by a boy, so i say stick to what you want and if HE loves YOU, he will respect how you feel right now and wait, or he willleave and find a fast girl and catch something. But hopefully hes smart and stays with you. DOnt give up something that precious because you feel you have to, give yourself to someone because ya'll have talked about it and you WANT to.
2006-11-09 22:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by Esha J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with you that u have ur whole life ahead of u to do it. that kind of guy will leave u once u give it to him... No worries girl, u still very young and there still lots of much better guy out there waiting for u. He doesn't deserve you..
2006-11-09 22:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by fr4ng1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a answers just so happen i have a answers I'm 18 years old i I'm a verigen no I'm not gay but I'm waiting tell i get married because when you do it now it want be the same when you get married but you make your own choice I'm just given you my opine
2006-11-09 22:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pressure you. If he loves you, he'll wait. If he just wants in your pants, he'll move on when he don't get any.
2006-11-09 22:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him if he keeps persiting. dont give it up until you are ready.
2006-11-09 22:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say no
2006-11-10 17:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by college girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋