I've been going out with this lovely girl for about 4 months and and out of this 4 months, we spend a month away because she work in another country (long distance).
This morning, she left again for another month and strangely I dont feel lost or sad that she is going away. We said our goodbyes and we go to work just like any other day. Dont get me wrong I enjoyed ALL my time with her but it seems that I dont feel that kind of fiery passion that you had when you fall in love for the first time. Is this wrong? I'm the kind of person who get bored easily. (on general) but I know that this can be worked out because all relationship go through this phase.
I dont wanna lose her because She has been the greatest girl I've been with. I just cant figure out my feelings.
Any advise?
2006-11-09 13:45:10 · 10 answers · asked by Colder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea she was sad when she had to go. But I wasnt'. Altho I would rather her stay here.
And Yea im 22.
2006-11-09 13:55:05 · update #1
That sucks, I would hate to be in that situation. It is probably because you are used to the fact of her leaving you ever now and again.... Send her a romantic e-mail and keep things ticking.
How is she when she leaves?? upset sad what?
2006-11-09 13:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you! When you first meet someone, you do have the Fiery passion, you talk on the phone for hours, you get butterflies, you hang out alot, etc.. But things do change. I have been with my finance for a year now, and we are getting married soon.. We went from talking hours to talking hardly at all on the phone, We do have a long distance relationship, and things have changed. But OUR LOVE hasnt! Love surpasses all, so dont worry about the emotion side!
Trust me, sometimes its nice to be away from the one you love, because we all need breaks... Thats not a bad feeling! But just know not to allow your feelings to overtake Your true love for her!
2006-11-09 21:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.. u said out the point.. u love her but u didnt feel any passions.. & u dont wanna lose her at the end..
so, just keep on contact with her..
why dont feel the passions.. is it cause by u love in the comfort way..
i mean some of the guys did not pay all the concentrate cos they afraid of DUMP.. so, they never say 104, i miss u...
2006-11-09 21:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are not telling me your age.
If you are 60 that's great.
If you are 22 HUMMM. First of all love starts with friendship but most young people are looking for a little physical attraction aren't they?
What can you do to put a little fire in this thing?
Something special to wear?
Something special to do?
Flowers?
something to make her want to be near you?
the posibilities are pretty much endless.
Perhaps if you do that you might find a little excitement under all that.
2006-11-09 21:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by dayakaur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is love, and the reason u let her go every month is cos u trust her and u know that she will come back to u after her trip... enjoy this cos it doesnt last very long.. dont read too much into it cos if u do then it will affect ur relationship with her and ur reaction and emotions to her...
2006-11-09 21:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you look back on a situation,you realize it wasn't all you thought it was.A beautiful girl walked into your life. You fell in love.Maybe it was only a childish infatuation, or maybe just a brief moment of vanity......
2006-11-09 22:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Men are not very good at being with only one woman...look around sew your oats...she will be back.
2006-11-09 21:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do what u must to live but on the side u have your love for her.. it is love if u feel it is btu if u questionit, it will all fall apart
2006-11-09 21:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Selestial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just gas...
2006-11-09 21:48:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brianna B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her
2006-11-09 21:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by THOMSON W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋