Ok, I am a freshman, and I have never gone out with a guy before. I really like this guy, and I know he really likes me. Thing is, neither of us are very outgoing, and we haven't really asked anyone out before. People keep telling me he likes me, even his best friend, and I want to go out wiht him. I know he won't have the guts to ask me out, but I am having trouble too. What do I do??? HELP!!!
(PS, never kissed either, so really shy)
2006-11-09 13:41:53 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write him a letter and tell him how u feel... that way u wont have to face him, if he says no... if he write back and says he likes u too then make a date to hang out with him... if talking to him is hard, other means of communication to get to him is, writing a letter, talking to him on the phone, txting him....
2006-11-09 13:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by beautysexychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend if she will help you go on a double date with him,. Like ask her to ask him to come with you and her and her BF, or another guy friend of hers.. It will be easier then, because you will at least be with more people, so you can feel less uncomfortable, or try to go out in a group, and spend most of the time with him... I hope that helps you
2006-11-09 22:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetfire101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seeing as he likes you, find a good time to ask him out and the answer is bound to be yes. Sounds like YOU have to be the one who does something or nothing will happen at all. Go for it. Good luck, hope it turns out good for the both of you.
2006-11-09 21:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't be outgoing and take the first step sometimes, you might be missing out on something. Just talk to him like you would to anyone.
2006-11-09 21:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nathan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with a girl i like, i seriously cant talk to her. but occasionally i get a little conversation and after that i feel really great. i no that i would love it if she asked me out, so same thing goes for him, seriously ask him out
2006-11-09 21:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're too shy to ask him out, write him a short note...
something like...Hope you aren't embarrassed about this, but I wasnt MORE from our friendship:) Wanna go out sometime...a date?
2006-11-09 21:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SAY TRY A DOUBLE DATE AND MAKE IT A PLACE LIKE BOWLING OR THE ARCADE, YOU JUST GOT TO GET TO BE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH HIM SO TRY SOME FRIEND OUTINGS A FEW TIMES AND THEN BRANCH OFF, BUT SINCE YOU ARE SHY GET HIS FRIEND TO HELP OUT WITH GETTING HIM TO GO
2006-11-09 21:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by chocolust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear something sexy, walk up to him and wisper in his ear that you are crazy about him and want him to ask you out now or lose you forever.
2006-11-09 21:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to just tell him how you feel..if not then give him a text or send him a card if your really shy!!i really hope it goes alright..go for it..you only live once!! x
2006-11-09 22:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.....totally the same thing that happened to me...weird
anyway....if you don'r have the guts yourself to ask him...then have one of your of his friends to ask for you..it might feel awkward..but hey what else are you supposed to do...if you really have feelings for this guy
2006-11-09 21:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋