My girlfriend and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years, but recently she has been openly flirting with one of the guys in another one of my classes. I didn't know about this until someone was gossiping about that she was doing this every class and I overheard. Should I be worried?
2006-11-09 13:41:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My question is, do you trust her? If you trust her you shouldn't be worried. Trust is the basis of all serious relationships.
Secondly, you heard it amongst the gossip right? You didn't actually SEE her doing this, did you? If you didn't actually see this, then I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and NOT worry about it. If you are still concerned about the issue, have you tried talking to her about it? After a year and a half, you should be able to talk about concerns like this....
Good luck!
2006-11-09 13:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by cutebastardette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really know?? have you seen her do it or just gossip? its called gossip for a reason. Id wait and see if she does it around you or even when she dosent know your there. I wouldnt jump the gun for he said she said stuff . You guys have been toghter long enough that you should give her more respect and trust her then to start accussing her of something she may have not done
2006-11-09 13:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by begoddenmist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend has always be flirty, I would not worry. If it has just started you may have a problem. But first , you should talk to her about it and tell her it bothers you. Being able to communicate effectively is very important in a relationship
2006-11-09 13:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by mssgtmidnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes rumors get spread about people, just to get you two to break up. have you ever thought that that could be whats happening? i would ask her about it. and if she is flirting, tell her that you dont like what shes doing and hopefully she will stop, if she doesnt then maybe she is looking for someone other than you. but alot of girls flirt, so its actually pretty normal. just like how guys look at porn... ughh.... cant stand guys that look at porn
2006-11-09 13:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by hotty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be just harmless flirting. Talk to your girlfriend and ask her. Tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and try to make some sort of compromise.
2006-11-09 13:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, how old are you? how about u just ask her or observe how she acts with other guys and draw ur own conclusions, dont always listen to other ppl. oh and just cuz it looks like flirting it doesnt mean she is alot of girls, me included, look like they are fliriting with guys when really they arent.
2006-11-09 13:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You should. Because, That means shes getting bored with you so spice things up or confront her
2006-11-09 13:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by magdaleal14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that uve been hearin stuff and ask her not 2, since u r not comfortable w/ her flirting w/ other guys
2006-11-09 13:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by cool chic 2no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her if you should be worried, they could be just rumers and flirting doesn't mean cheating.Talk to her
2006-11-09 13:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh..she is ur girlfriend n u should be worried bout that..who would not worrried bout his girlfriend flirting with another guy..
2006-11-09 13:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by emmy_vanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋