Does any body outthere have any idea what to do?
2006-11-09 13:35:30 · 30 answers · asked by Redbull 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't fall in love with married women. Just sleep with them
2006-11-09 13:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by James L 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Its probably just a phase, you may see qualities or features of what you imagine your future wife or lover to have.
Dont act on your feelings and accept the fact that she is married to someone else, there is always someone better out there than who you already think is the greatest most wonderful person in the world.
So keep away because things are not always as they seem, you may not be right for each other once together and after going through so much trouble to get with her in the first place it isnt worth it.
So think outside the box, accept this woman is married and dont go looking for love because in most cases love finds you.
2006-11-09 13:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Resor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably in love with a married woman because it's safer than being in love with a single woman who might expect a commitment sometime down the road. The married woman's husband might come after you, though. So, if I were you, I'd find someone else to love...and fast.
2006-11-09 13:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say Bye-Bye. You are trying to build a life with someone who cannot build a life with you. If she was ready to build a life with someone else, she would have divorced her husband already.
You deserve somebody who can spend time with you, and someday marry you and spend the rest of your lives together. Go get that - don't waste time on something that can't get you anywhere.
If this has happened to you before, see a counselor. You need to find out what in your personality is causing you to choose something bad for yourself.
2006-11-09 13:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Polymath 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In general, you should leave her alone and get over her. If she has kids, you should leave now- this minute. If she doesn't have kids or if her marriage is on the rocks anyway, then you would probably be her rebound guy and she might leave you for another guy when you are together. Or she'll stay with you for a while and then go back to her husband.
It sucks, but that's the way these things work out. We all deal with heartbreaks in life. You'll pine for a while, feel like something is ripping your guys out, but eventually you'll get over it. Take up a new hobby or two. It helps to stay busy and keep yourself distracted.
2006-11-09 13:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by blahblah 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes - absolutely nothing! Even if she says how unhappy she is. If her marriage isn't going to last then let it end naturally of its own accord. Then if it's meant to be it will happen. Until then, leave well alone. Trust me, I've been in a similar situation - twice! I only ended up hurting a whole bunch of people including myself. Hope you make the right decision.
2006-11-09 13:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Helen B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been there before.. I fell for a married guy. But I put a stop to it.. because it kept effecting me worse and worse as time went on.. Find a single woman!!!
2006-11-09 13:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by sassy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You need to walk away and not disturb the marriage any further. Do whatever, but stay away!! The chances of it working out are next to nothing! Don't mess with her any further! Don't be an adulterer or marriage wrecker, it's not worth it and it would never resolve itself. Go away and meet someone else - trust me, you'll be glad you did. I don't believe you love her - it's lust. Lust can be dealt with - you're just horny - where's your self control? Get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good boy, now go home. :)
2006-11-09 13:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Forever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a real man and tell the husband. I'm sure your dad will understand
I am assuming you haven't had any physical contact with this women and have a crush. Unless she is your sister or mother ,in that case it is illegal and disgusting.
Get a motorcycle
2006-11-09 13:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her go and move on with your life. 9 times out of 10 a person is not going to leave their spouse for "the other person".
2006-11-09 13:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Debra M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for you...please move on and find a nice unattatched lass to love....married peeps are dis-honest and selfish, not the right person for you! X
2006-11-09 13:45:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋