My honey and I were in a deep conversation.........we have a long distance relationship. Singles sights came up, and I asked if he had deleted all his profiles like he'd said he was going to.
He hasn't.
Well He keeps telling me how much he loves me.
I visited 2 sights I know about that he has said he use to be on. It shows he's been there in the last week!!
Do I play stupid and hide my pain, or do I just move on?
2006-11-09 13:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. Life is too short to waste your time & your heart on someone who does not value you enough to be honorable & to be truthful. You should value yourself enough not to waste your time on someone who is out shopping around for something better than you. You cannot get upset if you choose to play stupid because you will be "settling" & this is what you can expect for the future. Cut your losses while you are ahead. Move on.
2006-11-09 13:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by ELIZABETH B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you keep an open mind and heart and not judge him for keeping his profile? Yes, then don't worry so much about it, it's just a profile.
If no, then maybe you need to communicate this with you honey and let him know how you feel. Communicate your feeling, don't start an argument.
2006-11-09 21:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to move on. If he's lying to u about singles website, come on now , it's no telling what else he lied about!!! The pain will go away, eventually time will heal your heart. Good luck!!
2006-11-09 21:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is really serious already, you gotta move on. if he's still looking, that means he hasn't found what he's looking for.
but if you're just starting and has not been committed yet with each other, then you can look the other way first until you're ready to either confront him so he'll know how you feel or not look back and move on if he still hasn't changed.
2006-11-09 21:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to move on. If he is still looking at those sites, he is not ready for a relationship. First you might try talking to him about it, if he still keeps visiting those sites, tell him you are worth more.
2006-11-09 21:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, If he can't be honest with you about being on singles sites what else is he not being honest with you about?
Move on to some one closer to you and enjoy life !!
Good Luck
2006-11-09 21:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles could even see that there is something wrong with that picture. There should be no reason why he should be going on that dating site other than to delete his profile..... Move on, move on please............
2006-11-09 21:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by ill_state00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a profile on the same websites he did and make sure he sees it.
2006-11-09 21:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jovigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on
2006-11-09 21:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine&rainbows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reread your question and I think you can answer that one yourself. Please move on.
2006-11-09 21:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋