yes so my bf decided tot ake a break from me on tuesday.basically for school i figured otu now. but before he said he doesnt love me anymore. but he says he does. next month would have been our 2 year anniversary with eachother. so anyways! we're "taking a break" and are "just friends" ye he still loves me and we even hugged and kissed alot too.? and said i love you? he said we will prbably get back together but he just wants to get his schooling out of the way. the semester ends next month b4 christmas. i dont understand why we still arent bf and gf? he said he doesnt want to be obligated to see me everyday and i told him he didnt have to and then said theres no point to be "dating" when you only see the person once in a while.
yet we were kissing and hugging and telling eachother we love eachother? i know we're just more than friends and so does he. but says were not bf anf gf so what are we?
and no he's not looking ar with another woman right now.
2006-11-09 13:12:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i always told him i love you alot and he said not to expect to hear him say it back since he says "it doesnt feel right since were still dating" yet we still hugged and kissed tonight.....
im just so confused! !
2006-11-09 13:13:41 · update #1
he'snot using me i trust him alot and has never lied to me. we dated form almost 2 years and are just taking a break to focus more on school. he took me out to dinner tonight....we both have very strong feelings for eachtoher..
2006-11-09 13:16:49 · update #2
we are really close and stillt alk on the phone everyday. the assured me that he's not going to look for anyone and that he would liek to get back together after the semester. this will just be a trial for us. he's not doing so hot in school. and tried to leave me a few months ago cuse he wanted to focus more on school. he also works almost full time. and carries a full oad of work in college. he needs to raise his GPA to get into the school he wants
2006-11-09 13:19:04 · update #3
im 19 and he's 18 and we're both in our second year of college. this semester is sure alot more difficult then the past ones! more work! ack . i know he;'s under alot of stress but cant see me allt he time and doesnt want to be obligated to see me every day.
2006-11-09 13:20:20 · update #4
next year would have been our 2 year anniv. we have feeling for eachother and said we will PROBABLY get back together after the semester which is next month. he just needs a break right now since school is ending soon and its his last chance to raise his grades
2006-11-09 13:23:34 · update #5
okay he wants to date but donest want to be obligated to see me. he doesnt see the point in dating somenie that he never see's.....
2006-11-09 13:25:31 · update #6
he wouldnt use me...
2006-11-09 13:26:22 · update #7
hes not liek that at all, hes nott hat kind of guy.
2006-11-09 13:26:42 · update #8
Ahh.. your really in a confusing situation.. but i can so relate hunny.. ive been in the same situation not so long ago.. and im back with the guy...
wow you guys were almost going out for 2 years.. thats a long time.. im sorry to say it this way sweety but i dont know you guys at all or how you guys were so i cant coem up with a final straight up answer.. but it seems like hes using you, i mean why arent you guys dating? You want to date him right?? and you love him.. so if he rli loved you hed date you even if you would see each other less often..
hope evrey thing works out..
xox
2006-11-09 13:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging and kissing mean more to you than him. To you it means committment, to him it is just physical.
If he was truly into the relationship he'd find the time to be together once a week, if even for lunch and a good talk. The fact he wants to call it off for awhile most likely means he's tired of you but not willing to let go.
Yes, there's also a chance he's overwhelmed by school and can't handle a bf/gf relationship right now.
What do you do in either case? Back off. Take a break. See if it comes back together. In the mean time concentrate on you and your life and school. Being apart allows you time to get yourself put together. Use it. Study, exercise, take up a new interest.........expand yourself. If you two get back together, he'll have an expanded version of what he had before.
2006-11-09 13:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of al, if your in your 14-17, its best not to have a guy unless he always loves you and doesnt care for what you do wrong but only cares for whatyou do right. If you mistake, he should still love you. he should never look around you if its another woman or not. <3
2006-11-09 13:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should settle your & his feeling right away. still want to be gf/bf or just friend or maybe no relation at all. It will hurt a lot if you still don't know the exact situation of relationship between you guys. perhaps this boy has no stable personality
2006-11-09 13:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by pinkshirt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age don't make a difference. I married my boyfriend and I'm 7 yrs older then him!
2016-05-22 01:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds kind of wierd but i think he just has his mind set on school and not so much you right now and dont feel bad about that because school can build up a lot of pressure on you. if i were you talk to him and ask him whats going on...good luck
2006-11-09 13:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you. this is a confusing one. when my boyfriend nad i broke up we still hooked up and he still told me he had feelings for me and such until he got a new girlfriend. thers still alot of time. i hope it all works out for the best.
2006-11-09 13:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE just want to do what he want to do without the guilt of not really cheating on you!
2006-11-09 13:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop him, he's a user
2006-11-09 13:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Little Wifey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for why confused? nothing in it
2006-11-09 13:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋