I have this boyfriend who is a total player and totally hot and a great kisser but before me he dated my bestfriend for about a week and dumped her because she kissed his bestfriend right behind his back and I don't know how to deal with it when I always here things about him and my bestfriend flirting and when I ask him he said it wasn't true and y best friend thinks she is still going out with him. so basically who should I dump
2006-11-09 12:59:42 · 20 answers · asked by Foxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your best friend cuz she sounds like a jerk.
But think about it, becuz if you dump her, then if your boyfriend dumps you, your left with nothing.
2006-11-09 13:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should have started dating you best pals ex boyfriend, but since ya did dump the guy and make sure there are no hard feelings between your friend.
2006-11-09 13:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but your friend is more important. Although she shouldn't flirt Back. He's dated a lot of girls. So ask yourself this; my friend, or the guy who flirts and dates a ton? Your pick not mine. Just make the right choice.
2006-11-09 13:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by LUVLIFE* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the choice is up to you. But in my opinion you should dump your best friend, because according to what you wrote, she's the one flirting with him. He loves you I could tell because he's actually being honest with you, he told you he was flirting with your friend, he probably does that with other girls, but you are the one he loves the other ones are just girls whom he likes to mess around with. Or he probably flirts just to make you jealous. But he loves you.
2006-11-09 13:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by dreame/lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy. . .your boyfriend actually sounds like the guy i like at the present moment. . really i dont think you should dump either. . . your friend sounds confused. . .thats all just be like "hey me and (boyfriend's name) are together and i dont mean to hurt your feelings by saying this blah blah blah" but of course you word it yourself and i know, i know its hard to do that trust me . . . i have to tell my bestfriend that I like her ex. . . and your boyfriend give it sometime im sure he'll change after you tell your friend that yall are together and not him and her. . . and yes i know it sounds easier then it looks but after its said and done . . you'll feel better
good luck hope everything works out.
2006-11-09 13:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the bpyfriend that doesn't sound like a best friend to me, so dump your friend.
2006-11-09 13:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by mistery person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one or both of them. Be upfront. Tell them you are not into child's games and past events. (And be that way too!) You like them both, want to be friends, have some fun. If they can't be together in your presence, then you will leave them both. Time to grow up.
2006-11-09 13:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask me i am in the same boat text me when you got an answer but you know if he is a player then maybe its better you go on the friends side- sorry if i didn't help
2006-11-09 13:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by baby g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy friend! Why do you want to date anyone who dated your best friend?
2006-11-09 13:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump both of them because you can't seem to trust either of them.
2006-11-09 13:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Momo lover #1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋