i was with my boyfriend and we were having fun a good time but then i start remembering the past about his ex and i start to get mad. i cant let go.
2006-11-09 12:29:29 · 13 answers · asked by lovesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to talk about whats bothering you and if you can't it doomed to fail. Sorry.
2006-11-09 12:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't let the past haunt you. If your boyfriend does not bring up his ex, why should it bother you. Sure it's normal to be a little jealous and mad, but if your bf still had feelings for his ex he would be with her rather than you. I think you should stop worrying and questioning a good relationship, just be happy and MOVE ON! =]
2006-11-09 12:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by ElieZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u have to let the past go if u really care about him. I know it will be hard, but u cant hang on to something that is in the past, look to the future and let him know that his past doesn't bother you and that u can move on with him and that u love him very much.
2006-11-09 12:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by crystal c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn how to let go, or it will cause you guys to grow apart. I mean, that's the past, right? Can't do anything about it. You just have to learn to accept his past in order for you guys to be happy.
Like me. My boyfriend and I had lots of things in our pasts, but we knew it doesn't matter anymore. Just focus on your present and future together! That's the most important thing, especially if you really love your man.
Learn to let go. Chill. Don't let the ghosts of the past haunt your present and future. Good luck girl! (",)
2006-11-09 12:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Emz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive brutalize run so some distance as you are able to from this guy. think of approximately each and every thing you prefer to do which incorporate your existence. Now think of of him beating you all your existence. Does the photograph your watching look to examine, what you prefer to do. I hate to sound like a cliche although he won't replace and in spite of if he does you do no longer understand how long this could take . Statistic says your abuser won't get greater desirable you are able to no longer win this statistic the two, with the aid of fact it particularly is no longer you beating him. in fact many have confidence via the years the abuser gets worse. I additionally agree from adventure you mustn't prepare signs and symptoms of leaving him. I went to artwork and in no way got here returned on a summer season day and that i lied approximately my money on tips. confident you prefer help considering you're thinking staying with him; fairly than attempting to stumble on a manner out. i'm no longer attempting to intend the two, yet i'm concern that like a woman with batter spouse syndrome, you will no longer depart with the aid of fact your thoughts have taken administration of your concept of the fact. particularly please get help on your section; no longer purely on the computing device, you're in a risky concern!
2016-10-03 11:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I do the same thing. I don't know why we do this. It doesn't really get easier over time either, I'm affraid to tell. All I try to do is to think about other things when I start to remember. Sometimes it helps and sometimes it well not so much.
2006-11-09 12:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to keep your boyfriend, you let go of the past don't put the ex between you and him.
2006-11-09 12:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its HIS past..and everyone has one... get over it and grow up. and if u cant let go of HIS past then maybe he isnt the one for u..maybe u need a guy who hasnt ever had a girlfriend or had sex or what not..if I was him I wouldnt date u ..u appear to be posessive, controling, and obsessive
2006-11-09 12:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im exactly the same way, but.. you need to remember that you love him and the past is the past
good luck
2006-11-09 12:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Pretty Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a very intresting past but all m now husband cared about was my and his furture together. The past is just that PAST. No one can change thei past you have to get over it because NOTHING can change it.
2006-11-09 12:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by katesname 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over it Girl....... you can't be worrying about what happened in the past............. Be more worried about living today and don't even worry about the future. Just enjoy the moment.
2006-11-09 12:31:36 · answer #11 · answered by scottleigh89 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋