There is a girl that I thought liked me for the longest time (we never talked) but now everytime i see her she pretends that I dont even exist. Whats up with that?
2006-11-09 12:26:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she doesn't like you.
2006-11-09 12:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is exactly like the situation I'm in right now. I like this guy, and I was [and still am] scared to say something, especially around anyone else. And this week, my friends were trying to make me ask him out, and he tells this he's already taken. Stuff I regret happened, he left the girlfriend, who supposedly stalked him. I still like him, but I try to act like he doesn't exist, I don't want him to kno. Cause I'm scared that he doesn't like me. And I can't take two rejections in one week.
Sry about the story, it's not to bore u, but to possibly give u an idea what that girl is actually thinking. Either she's playing hard to get, or she has the same problem I do. If I were u, I'd go talk to her. See what's up.
Good luck
2006-11-09 20:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we may assume one thing but there's always a possibility it is not true. Did you ask her if she did?
On the other hand, she may just pretend you don't exist, because she is just scared she'd be embarrassed if you'll know about her feelings and you don't feel the same. I say this because i do this at times... hehehe. So why don't you go and ask her the real score... and clear the air of doubts?
2006-11-09 20:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole looking at each other thing but never talking relationship can only last for so long, she was probably waiting for you to make a move and the chance passed you by..
2006-11-09 20:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never talked to this girl where did you get the idea that she liked you? One has to KNOW someone before they can LIKE them. Maybe you thought she was just ATTRACTED to you...obviously she became UNattracted.
2006-11-09 20:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make the first move, if you like her. 8 )
2006-11-09 20:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You played around and took too long to notice her.. If you think she liked you, she probably did.... but since you didn't talk to her or notice her, she's tired of waiting for you...and moved on.
2006-11-09 20:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you need help in the "confusing" signals she is throwing at your head? Let the light bulb come on and move on.
2006-11-09 20:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is confusing to me too, as you "thought" she liked you, you didn't know, now you know, she never really did.
2006-11-09 20:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because you never talk. If someone likes you, you should talk to them often, or else they will start to not like you, i mean geez. Just go talk to her, ask her about it. Yah know, talk instead of NOT talking.
2006-11-09 20:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's feeling the awkwardness around you, it's all. she remembers what it felt like to like you and be rejected, and it's hard not to look at a person differently after all that. we've all been there, sometime or other.
2006-11-09 20:29:20 · answer #11 · answered by nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋