Girls: how long do you date a guy before you ask and/or wonder if he is circumcised?
Have you ever asked / thought about it while on a date with a guy?
2006-11-09 12:15:41 · 14 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why six months?
and yes, theres a difference.
circumcised theres no foreskin on the head and is cleaner, no bacteria, etc.
uncut guys you dont know what is growing under that skin....
2006-11-09 12:20:31 · update #1
Ask him right away, before he wastes any money on dinner and drinks for a shallow twit like you!
BTW I like circumcised girls with big breasts.
2006-11-09 16:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by cut50yearsago 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1 hour is long enough.
Enough time, for most guys that is. After the first hour's conversation a guy has decided where he thinks the relationship is going to go (1 night stand, good enough till something better, one to romance, marriage material ).
He will interpret the question as an invitation to "get nekid and do the sinful shuffle." It's not quite as bold an invitation as asking the guy if he's got a condom. The guy's not going to object to the question.
Therefor, the time it takes you to ask is really the time it takes you to decide where you want the relationship to go. For a 1-nighter, it doesn't matter because he MUST be wearing a condom and you won't feel the diff nor will the cleanliness issue matter. Same for a short haul. However, if you're looking at the guy as long-term, then the timing gets complicated.
Since it is a dump/keep issue for you, then the sooner the guy knows the better. It would not be fair to invest a lot of time & heartache only to find out the relationship was doomed from the start. On the other hand, if the guy thinks you are marriage material, he might concider getting it done as an adult.
You can accomplish your goals and be fair by not asking the question at all. Instead, once you have decided that the guy is worth a long-term relationship, state rather matter-of-factly that you will never have unprotected sex with an uncircumsized guy. If he's not interested in the long haul, he will quickly make moves to stop dating you.
2006-11-09 12:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by Trailcook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never actually had that thought cross my mind ever. I don't think there is a difference, it's not like it's going to feel any different. Is this more of a curiousity thing or do you have like a phobia or something? If you do want to know, I think that it's inappropriate to ask someone that you are casually dating but if it's semi-serious or you guys have gotten "close" (passionate kissing and/or heavy petting) then you can ask then.
2006-11-09 12:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you wanna know?
Anyway if you wanna know, bring up the subject, like:
Hey I saw the other day this program about circumcision, and I think It must hurt a lot to little boys
Then hopefully he´ll say something like :
I wouldn't know im not circumcise, or not at all, they did it to me and I dont remember it, or yes when they did it to me i was very uncomfortable for a while
That way you´ll know
2006-11-09 12:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably about the same time that it takes a guy to wonder if the girl is shaved and and swallows.
12 1/2 minutes !!!!
2006-11-09 12:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend in highschool that was not circumsized, I don't know but one day he just started talking about it, he said it had to do with there familys beliefs, his father was from like austria or someplace like that so his beliefs were used, Id say if his mother or father was from someplace else over seas, those beliefs may be in place. If they were both born and raised in the united states there probally believe in circumsizion
2006-11-09 12:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by stealth5033 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why should this matter to like a guy or not they both make you feel good.could you be circumcised you know in some countries women get it should that matter.That's like a guy asking you how big is your*****,that's not nice.
2006-11-09 12:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends, first, check to see if he's got a big bruise on his forehead, cuz the purpose of foreskin is to prevent guys' hands from slipping off and hitting themselves on the noggin.
then, i guess, if you're old enough, and you're talking about sex, ask him about it. chances are he is gonna be, so it doesn't hurt. just come out with it. my friend complains to her bf she's horny and that she's got such big boobs and he doesn't mind. just come out with it. it won't hurt.
2006-11-09 12:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by nickname 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait six months to ask.
2006-11-09 12:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never have..... i would find out once we became intimate not because i look for it...but obviously theres a difference.... but whether he is or not makes no difference to me nor do i wonder
2006-11-09 12:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by askaway 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋