ok. . heres it goes i kinda like this kid, but my best friend had a "together" moment with him already like a month ago but she doesnt like him anymore. I think im starting to like him because a couple of days ago he came over my house and we were doing a project. But we got nothing done. He was like body slamming me and stuff all flirty and was just so hot. And like at one point he was so close to like kissing me. But he flirst with girls all the time. Thats what i dont get i dont know if i was just someone for him to flirt with or he kinda likes me?. Well today he calls me, but my friend that had the "together" moment with him was right there. . . she got a lil mad. Then later i talked to him on the computer and i was like" you got me in trouble with her" and hes like" well she has to deal with it", what does that mean?. . . well like when he was over my house he was so touchy with me, im not gunna lie i liked it. *Also he said yesturday "call me in the morning"
what do i do?
2006-11-09 12:11:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont call him, let him call u ;)
..then u'll know if he likes u...if he likes u he'll call u, if not, he just wants to see if he can mess with u....if u pretend to ignore him n do nothing, he might start chasing after u :D
2006-11-09 12:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree. Being a Teen Girl does suck. I was there not so long ago. But you get through it and then figure out all the mess you went through taught you some nice little lessons. Okay, to answer your question(s). I really think you should just leave this kid alone. Personally, friendship is more important then some little kid who likes to flirt with anything with **** and legs. Look, if you dont really care about your friend then just do what u gotta do. But if you do value your friendship then you need to stay away from this kid because from the looks of it, he is totally playing you both.
2006-11-09 12:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the high school drama.. I wouldnt trade it for anything, considering I graduated in 2004. My advice to you is you need to ask him straight up. Some guys are so flirty they will flirt with anyone.. they have NO CLUE what they want. (I was one of those guys) Now I am married and I have a daughter so I don't flirt anymore, but my advice is to have fun in high school.. don't get into anything deep. I'm 20 and I found "the one" but I was lucky.. the majority of my friends havent found "that one" yet. But ask him out.. go for it.. you deserve to be happy.
2006-11-09 12:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah.... nothing says "I like you a lot" like a good ol' body slam.... How Romantic!!!! Gosh... I just get tingles all up and down my spine at the very thought of it. Wise Up!!! You're the Flavor of the Month with this jerk..... and your girlfriend was Last Month. Quit asking to be used and abused.
2006-11-09 12:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he flirts with a lot of girls then you know that he is a player and it is true that you friend has to deal with it cause she is past. Since he came to your house their was major connection and so was the call me in the morning message. You got a good one here and good luck
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2006-11-09 12:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably just wants a "Together" moment with you.
I bet he figures since he and your good friend had a "together" moment without being attached, he thinks you will to.
Figure out what you want:
That one short "together" moment with him
or
That one friend who gets mad at you for having a crush
or
The oppurtnity to bond with that mad friend since you have both been burned by this guy and his "together" moments.
Good Luck!
2006-11-09 12:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by sucha_jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The together moment wasn't long, and since she did clearly state she didn't like him, she has lost her right to "claim" him. Your friend will have to put up or shut up.
If you feel this relationship will be more than phyical pleasures, then hell, go for it.
2006-11-09 12:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gurl please if that girl had a "togther" moment n doesn't like him anymore then why don't u body slam him if u know what im saying but if he flirts with gurls all the time who gives a **** be one of the gurls that makesout with him dammmmmnnn tap that ***!!!!!
2006-11-11 03:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by sdtf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes trying to get friendly! like he likes you friendly!
go ahead get with him ur Friends 'together' moment is over.
P.S. if it turns out to be a scam one of 2 things can be done. 1 you can just let it go or you can get him back.
2006-11-09 12:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by smartfashiondiva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he may be really horny, but he likes you because he doesnt care about your friends oppinion of him. If she broke up with him, then theres nothing for her to be mad at you about anyway
2006-11-09 12:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋