See I have to write my own vows for my wedding in January and I have no clue on what to write so If anyone has and advice on some vows Please e-mail it to me at-
dirtbikeridegirl2001@yahoo.com
thanks.
2006-11-09 11:36:04 · 19 answers · asked by dirtbikeridegirl2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
try looking here
http://www.weddingsatwork.com/
you can start making programs for your wedding...
2006-11-10 00:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by matt B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a look at the standard vows and see what you want in yours. If it is a church wedding, there will be a number of pledges that you will be making in front of God, so you want to get them right. Talk to your SO about what vows you will make.
2006-11-09 13:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the stuff that is said at weddings or that happens at weddings only matters to the bride or her mother....
The rest of us just want to get to the party..
Trying to think up vows and stuff like that just puts more pressure on you, and your soon to be spouse. If you want this to be the most memorable day of your life...give yourself a break and stick to the traditional stuff.
Enjoy the party, cause after it's over, everything just gets harder..
2006-11-09 12:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak from your heart. It's easy to look into your heart and find why it is that you are marrying this man. It could be nice to add something that happened to you guys into the vows to make it a little more special. You could say something like the moment you knew you wanted to spend the rest of your life with him. I hope this helps!
2006-11-09 12:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Google "wedding vows" to get ideas.. Then embellish as you see fit. Or, find a friend who's a good writer, that's what I did; my matron of honor wrote the vows, and they were the best ever.
2006-11-09 11:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The following is from a wedding scene in a Mercedes Lackey book. You can change the words around to make them vows.
This bond, this joining, is not meant to be a fetter. A joining is a partnership, not two people becoming one. Two minds cannot fuse, two souls cannot merge, two hearts cannot keep to the same time. If two are foolish enough to try this, one must overwhelm the other, and that is not love, nor is it compassion, nor responsibility. You are two who choose to walk the same path, to bridge the differences between you with love. You must remember and respect those differences and learn to understand them, for they are part of what made you come to love in the first place. Love is patient, love is willing to compromise—love is willing to admit it is wrong. There will be hard times; you must face them as bound warriors do, side by side, not using the weapon of your knowledge to tear at each other. There will be sadness as well as joy, and must support one another through the grief and sorrow. There will be pain—but pain shared is pain halved, as joy shared is joy doubled, and you each must sacrifice your own comfort to share the pain of the other. And yet, you must do all this and manage to keep each other from wrong actions, for a joining means that you also pledge to help one another at all times. You must lead each other by example. Guide and be willing to be guided. Being joined does not mean that you accept what is truly wrong, being joined means that you must strive that you both remain in the light and the right. You must not pledge yourselves thinking that there will be no strife between you. That is fantasy, for you are two and not one, and there will inevitably come conflict that it will be up to you to resolve. You must not pledge yourselves thinking that all will be well from this moment on. That is a dream, and dreamers must eventually wake. You must come to this joining fully ready, fully committed, and fully respectful of each other.
Now you will no longer fear the storm, for you find shelter in each other.
Now the winter cannot harm you, for you warm each other with love.
Now when strength fails, you will be the wind to each other’s wings.
Now the darkness holds no danger, for you will be the light to each other’s path.
Now you will defy despair, for you will bring hope to each other’s heart.
Now there will be no more loneliness, for there will always be a hand reaching out to aid you when all seems darkest.
Where there were two paths, now there is one.
May your days together be long upon the earth, and each day blessed with joy in each other.
2006-11-09 15:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep a journal about what makes him special.
Why do you consider him to be "Mr. Right"?
How does he make you feel?
Why are YOU ment for HIM?
How does he make you feel loved and complete?
What are the things you want to do for him as his wife?
Try and answer these questions for a week and you will have your vows. Yes, each question can have more than one answer.
Your vows, your words to him.
2006-11-09 17:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by clickityclack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the kind of wedding you're having, for example themed weddings usually have different vows than others, even a different ceremony setting. look on the internet to get ideas; there are tons out there. people are making persoanl pages for their weddings, and if you've got writer's block, their vows might helpyou to get unstuck. if not, think of incorporating a poem a verse from a favorite song that resembles how you feel. write out your views on what marriage is and what you expect to have to do for it on a sheet of paper. these will become your promises (think i promise to love you all the days of my life, forsaking all others kind of things) as hard as it is, just try to put your feelings for your hubby on paper. no matter how corny it may seem to you, it will mean a lot to him!!
good luck to you!!
2006-11-09 11:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Duelen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch "American Wedding." Use the same vows the bank geek used when she married Jim. If he hasn't seen the movie...he won't know the difference! lol.
2006-11-10 03:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by trouble1374 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going through and here is my advice to you: You need to take some time by yourself and get in a quiet place. Take some deep breaths to calm yourself.Just sit and think about what you feel for your fiance and what they mean to you. Really concentrate on putting your feelings into words and when they words start to come out, let them flow. Remember to write everything down. You will be surprised with what you come up with.
2006-11-10 00:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my wedding vows i kindof mixed it up a bit i wrote from what was in my heart and read some bridal magazines and pulled some ideas from there it worked out great and I ment every word
2006-11-09 11:50:40 · answer #11 · answered by slpandsfp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋