Need help with my suicidal issues can anyone help?

Question

i needhelp im a cutter!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

You must really be in a lot of emotional pain to do this. I'm sorry to hear about it.
The good thing is, you're asking for help. Are you able to ask for help inperson, like seeing a doctor?
I assume most MDs would want to give you meds, but I've found psychology to help in the long run.

Answer 2

Only YOU can decide to change your life. Start right now. Your life is precious no matter how ugly things get. There is no one else like you.
You need to write down two columns> What you like about yourself or positives and what you dont like or negatives. Then you need to tackle the negatives and turn them into positives.
Example:

Negative
unhappy
unworthy
abused
Positives angry
cute
smart
great size
has close friends

Decide what you need to change most and do it. Dont be weak be strong. There is never a good enought reason to die. And there are many reasons to live. You are Gods creation and he and only he can decide the best time for you to go to heaven.

The main reason not to die: Your job here on Earth is not done. God has a plan for us. To get married one day, have kids, help people, be in the right place and the right time, be there for our friends, and on and on. We do not know what the plan is but we are the ones that charted our lifes here on Earth from Heaven.

If you kill yourself, you go to heaven to a dark lonely room until you can be born again and next time it can we a worse life. Like be a starving child in Africa, be a child beaten by her parents, be black and feel racial hatred. Things are always worse the next time around. Stay here and try to improve things NOW.

If you are a cutter, find out why you are doing it. Then just stop. Everytime you get the impulse to do it cut paper or take up knitting or beading. Find something to do with your hands. Cutting is a way that you Hurt yourself or inflict pain on yourself. It is from low self-esteem. Someone has made you to feel worthless. You are not worthless you just need proper treatment and guidance from others. If you can get away from the person or persons who are making you feel so bad do it, and if you are a teen ask to be removed from the home. Others out there are looking for someone to love and take care of (even me). We value kids and teens and see your worth and your heart.

Remember only you can do it. Please stay tough and plan a way to change your life for the better.

Why do I care? I was once a teen who hated myself so much that at times I wanted to die. I never cut but I plotted ways to end my life (mostly over boys). I learned so much by just deciding to change my life (slow but steady). I decided college was my best step.

I am older now raised two fine young men and am happy and have everything I could ever want. Could you imagine if I would have exited this life too soon. My boys would never have been born and my husband would be who knows where with who knows.

I decided to spend my life helping other teens. I love teens and young adults more than any age group. They are genuine.

Answer 3

Seek immediate rehab. I had never heard of a cutter until I watched THE REAL WORLD some years back. A girl on the season was a cutter. You should really seek help. It's self destructive and you could potentially kill yourself.

Answer 4

Sweetheart, in every phone book is a number for
the suicide hot line. Call that number right now. If you can't
find it then call the police and ask for the number.
Get counseling right away. Most towns have a County
Mental Health clinic you can go to. You have taken the
hardest step by reaching out to us here. Now reach out again to someone where you live. Please do it now.
You are important. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

Answer 5

I've felt your problem!! Things will get better. Why are you feeling this way?? Stop cutting!!! Things will only get worse. When you cut you are walking in a circle. Talk to someone, a close friend? a brother, sister? get involved with others. and know who you really are. What do you want to do with your life? college? God? Concentrate on yourself. There are more people who care for you than you know!!

Answer 6

ok, well, hun, i know wat its like, i was gettin really bad with it, then i let just one person in my life and i told them all about wat was bothering me.

writing down how u feel instead of cutting, can really help. so mayb try poetry, or just writing down all the words sayin how u feel. get some stress balls and throw them at the wall or something (just not something living, lol). u could try carving into a piece of wood. just as heavy as what ud do to urself, but to the wood. still gives u the feeling of cutting but ur not. mayb confide all ur issues in one person. doesnt have to be a close friend (tho that is a better idea coz then they can help u) u could try an internet buddy. people can be incredibly supportive if u find the rite ppl.

if all else fails, try puttin a rubberband on ur wrist, and when u feel the need to do it, flick the rubberband. instant pain and scarless! or! u could try holding an ice cube, the pain goes down ur arm and still hurts u, but once again, scarless!

hope that helps!

*lil miss*

ps, email me if u want!

Answer 7

chick i know its a ark place your at i know from my own experiance i nearly died when i tryed at 15 thank god im here now it gets better ill say what i say to every self harmer put away the blades and hold ice in your hand sounds stupid i know but it has the same effect try and get proffetional help dont feel stupid and a proffesional person will never undermind you dont wait till its to late if you realy want to talk im me i realy do under stand where your at

Answer 8

You need to go to the hospital or county health department. This is not good to be involved with.

Answer 9

You need help and Yahoo really isnt the place you need to go to find it! contact someone in your family or a close friend that can find you the help you need!

Answer 10

Maybe it's OK if you go, you know, after all, if you have been good you should go to heaven, just as long as you don't kill yourself, then you'll surely go to hell, and that place ain't nice, so why don't you just go find something interesting to do to take your mind off it till you pass away and stop annoying us with the horrible kinds of thoughts we have after reading the sick stuff you posted here. OK?