My boyfriend seems to care more about his car than he cares about me. My friends think I should "accidently" wreck it on him. They even offered to do it for me. What should I do?
2006-11-09 10:40:11 · 28 answers · asked by somegurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time for a trade in.
2006-11-09 10:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you've asked a question and managed to get a crapload of answers from people who have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.
You've made an allegation against your boyfriend: "He cares more about his car than me."
But, you haven't given any informationon what you're talking about. So, are you mad because he spent time working on his car when you think he should have been spending it with you? Are you mad because he spent money on his car that you think he should have spent on you? What's the deal?
If he got a new $2000 paint job on a piece of crap of a car and didn't buy you anything for your birthday, then you have an issue with him. So, just what is the deal?
2006-11-09 10:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away... your friends wreck his car your going to jail . no passing go .
Find some one who loves you . and the car isn't an issue...
Sadly there are just guys who are like that into their 40s ... its always something they are polishing ... shining up .... showing off to everyone... a home .. .a 65 mustang... a cadilliac escalade ... his stereo ... HIS YARD>>> its always something ... its like a self esteem..... thing..... they are only as good as their stuff. Get a new guy.... you will feel better . I promise. the sad thing is if its wrecked .. the police could blame you because you put it on this post.... they can look you up. and millions of folks like his parents could see this. or yours .
2006-11-09 10:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by zachs mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares more about the car then he does about you, if you wreck it he'll hate you. If that's what you want, go for it. Personally I think what you're thinking on doing it's very mean.
2006-11-09 10:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you wreck his car he is going to dump u why would u do that it's just a guy thing and besides wouldn't u take care of your car like he takes care of his omg dumb b i t c h e s
2006-11-09 10:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Preciousgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should take some hot picture of u an the car and tell him if u want me give the car a break am a car guy and that would defiently make me want u not the car
2006-11-09 11:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, and if he wont listen, if he cares more for the car than you , and you were to wink wink accidently wreck his car, he'd probably just get rid of you. why go with a guy who doesnt appreciate you, ?
2006-11-09 10:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dont deserve you. if he likes it so much then give him a blanket and tell him to sleep in it and when he gets horney not to come knockin on your door !!! because he needs to grow up an learn cars come and cars get wrecked but a girlfriend will be there untill the end...
2006-11-09 10:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about it and see if he has ever noticed that he was treating you this way.If he doesn't care than you know what to do, but whatever you do don't wreck his car.That's just a end to probably a good relationship and just more bills to pay.If you need anymore answers just ask ya gurl.WISH YOU,HIM,AND HIS "CAR"(lol) GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-09 10:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet_Carmel10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wreak the car he'll just get mad and get another one, just be glad the car is a thing it has no gender, hey maybe he'll wreck it himself.
2006-11-09 10:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple! You tell him is your car or me you want to be with more. There is nothing wrong with loving your car but when it comes to him putting that car before the woman he "SUPPOSEDLY" LOVES. If he continues to do that get rid of him becasue a woman deserves more time than a car.
I don't know if that helped you.
2006-11-09 10:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by Mo1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋