My boyfriend broke up with me on saturday night. I really want to talk to him more about it, see how he is doing, the whole blah blah. I was going to call him on sunday (one week later, we haven't talked since) and see if he wants to meet at the bar and talk. I'm not going to cry, I'm not going to beg and plead, but I really want to see him and talk more about this to him. My friend told me I shouldn't call him, maybe I could email him, but not call. Is he right?
2006-11-09 10:25:52 · 13 answers · asked by blackbird983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call him, just don't. There is no reason for it, HE broke up with YOU. YOU are a wonderful person and HE was too stupid to realize it so there is no reason for you to go calling this moron. You deserve better than that and you never need to grovel to any man. No woman needs to grovel to a man ever.
2006-11-09 10:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't phone him..... e-mail would work i think....i would suggest letter... that's what i did.... and it's kinda nice too cuz you can write everything you think about him and the situation and not start crying from his reaction.... which would happen if you guys talked in person and he would then tell you that he doesn't want to be with you anyways even though you like him so much. YEP very sad but i think once you are not wanted you must move on... and stop wanting him... because by wanting him... you will just end up hurting yourself more..... and it's just too painful..... there are other people that will make you happy... may not be now.... but one day they will......
2006-11-09 18:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your friend says a week may seem like a long time for you, but it's probably not don't be clingy email him but don't talk too him for awhile after the breakup even if you guys decided to still be friends because things will still be uncomfortable probably between the two of you. good luck and sorry about the breakup.
2006-11-09 18:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by valley1800 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to contact your ex period? He broke it off so if he wanted to talk about it or wanted you back, he'd make the effort to call you. By trying to meet up with him and trying to make contact with him, you're only making yourself vulnerable in this situation. You need to be strong, hang in there, and don't call OR e-mail him. Your best bet is to stay away. If he realizes he made a mistake or wants to explain himself to you, then he'll call you.
2006-11-09 18:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he's right. Have a little pride in yourself and don't contact him in any form. If he wants to get in touch with you he will, but you might want to really think about what went wrong in the relationship and if it's changed at all. It might not be worth salvaging.
2006-11-09 18:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks, but he broke up with you. He must have told you his reasons why and the fact that you have not heard from him should tell you all that you need to know. You really need to forget the concept of getting back together or rehashing things with him. You deserve someone who will not dream of breaking it off with you.
2006-11-09 18:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay,girl i can feel your pain from my own experience,so here the plan email DO NOT CALL HIM if he response then you call him.But make sure you ask him if it is OK to call him,cause you need to just talk about this.
2006-11-09 18:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by crystal h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always too soon to call your ex
2006-11-09 18:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an ex for a reason right? why do you want to talk to him. let him be!
2006-11-09 18:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he left you. Get on with your life. There are other men out there.
2006-11-09 18:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by JENNIFER W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋