why is it so difficult to act on the advice that people give you?
i like this girl adn every one says i should ask her out cuz she like me too, but i fear for my life when she is near me adn i cant think of anything to say.
i get advice all the time like speak about the weather or the news, but i go blank. what should i do?
2006-11-09 10:24:39 · 7 answers · asked by origamix60 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tht's becuz u luv her frm heart.. and u r just nervous wen she is arnd.. all u gotta do is wait for the girl to pick up the conversacion! jus give it time and tlk... gud luk!! :D
2006-11-09 10:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you can't take advice, why are you still asking the same question? Just do it. If you KNOW she likes you then what have you got to lose? It's not even as though there is a justified fear of rejection if you know she'll say yes. Just get her alone so that there's noone else around and ask her.
2006-11-09 18:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start off slow dont be so assertive if you cant think of anything to say when you approach her. As days go by if you see her in the hall just say hello you dont necessarily have to have a 2 hr conversation but saying hello will just let her know that you are interested in her. As you become more comfortable then you can start have longer conversations. Rushing into will only make it an awkward situation.
2006-11-09 18:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should first be friends with her and that way you will get used to hanging around her. The reason why you are scared of her is cuz you don't know muck about her. and if you donot ask her out you may lose your oppotunity cuz us gurls don't like talking to boz unless they talk to us first.
2006-11-09 18:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by isatoujallow_010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass her a note, or send her an email. Then, she will have time to consider what your saying, instead of just rejecting you.
Hope this helped :) Good Luck!
2006-11-09 18:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get high on caffeine, or be out in a busy place with loud music where you just feel happy. then it'll blurt right out
2006-11-09 18:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang around her like you are her friend and things will ease up a little
2006-11-09 18:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by stephiepoohbearcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋