2006-11-09 10:17:16 · 31 answers · asked by pilgrimofspace 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
slash her throat, call it evens
2006-11-09 10:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by steve 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You as her spouse can take her to the ER at your local hospital and ask for her to be admitted to the pysch ward for observation because she is a harm to others. You can call 911 right now and ask that she be picked up because you are afraid for your own life. From the sounds of it your unsure if you want to leave her or not, maybe with the proper treatment she'll be okay, the decision is yours but do not allow yourself to stay with her without insisting that she needs help, what she did isn't normal and she is crying out for help in a very abusive way. You need counseling too, your a victim of a crime and need coping skills to help you. Are there kids involved? If so, you need to get your wife out of the house ASAP for the sake of your kids and yourself. Do not think that doing this is going to make her hate you, she might be mad but she needs help, do not enable her and just stay and pretend nothing has happened. The choice is yours but I think you've already made up your mind that she needs help.
Good Luck! Hang in there.
2006-11-09 18:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by T-Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any abuse from a man or a woman, sane or insane needs to be reported to the police and you need to leave ASAP!! LIKE NOW!! There may come a time when you can't ask Yahoo Answers for help because you could be dead. I sure hope there are no children between the two of you...but if there is, YOU MUST report this to the authorities...if not and something happens to the kids, you are just as much the abuser...GO...STOP READING...LEAVE!!!
2006-11-09 18:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by divinephi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even sick people need to learn responsibility for their actions. Help her get the medical attention she needs, but really, how will she injure you next time? Is it worth the risk? What are your motivations for staying?
Better to talk to a mental health professional or a doctor about this. If you're staying and putting up with abuse, then you need help just as much as she does.
2006-11-09 18:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call the cops and have her arrested for asault with intent to cause bodily injury. Then while she is in jail get a restraining order against her and don't allow her back in your house or within 100 ft of you. Then file for a divorce and take her for everything. She sounds like a mentally disturbed woman and I would get as far away from her as I could. You have got the chance that thousands of men would love to have to get out of a bad relationship a winner !
2006-11-09 18:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not the Prime cause of her mental ills then stay, she needs all the support and help she can get.
If she is too far gone then get her an assessment by a competent medical mental assessment team, she might be better off in an institution.
2006-11-09 18:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay, the message you send to her is that it is alright to abuse you in such a fashion. I agree, she is mentally disturbed, and needs help. You need to file charges of assault against her, have pictures of the wound and treatment taken. When she goes before a judge request she be committed for psychiatric observation. That way, she gets the help she needs, you don't get abused anymore, and the rest of the people she has the potential to abuse are safe. It is the responsible thing to do.
2006-11-09 18:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Why in the world would you want to stay with someone who is abusive and violent toward you? There is a good chance that it will only get worse, do you want to risk it? Get some counseling enlist a friend for moral support and get out of that relationship. She should get herself into counseling also.
2006-11-09 18:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by puggas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can stay. I'd talk to her about this and just ask her if you are safe. The question might surprise her enough to tell you the truth. Maybe give Dr. Phil a call. (or Jerry)
2006-11-09 18:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by dt_05851 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she slashed your brain. I can't believe you would even consider staying with her.
Do you like getting abused? Some people do and don't leave abusive relationships because they like having it to complain about.
2006-11-09 18:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can stay and when she kills you it will be sad.... violence is always a show of needing some kind of help if she is not willing to go to anger management or some kind of counseling run while you still can....
2006-11-09 18:21:18 · answer #11 · answered by barbie89032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋