Ive known him for 3 years now. Ive never really seen him as anything more then a friend until a month or 2 ago. I thought he liked me before when I didnt think of him as anything more but now i just dont know. Hes been there for everything. He used to listen to all my guy stories and give me adviceee and i would do the same for him. I can see us together. All my friends tell me I should go out with him and that they think he likes me but I really dont know if I should go for it. I want our friendship and I dont want to lose our relationship if I tell him. I was trying to keep it in but its eating at me. I thought it was just a phase I was going through but it hasnt went away. I just want to tell himmm but I dont want to make things complicated. Ive been trying to get him to hint something to me but I think hes too shyy... I need adviceee!! Thanks in advance
2006-11-09 10:10:45 · 16 answers · asked by Bellaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi same here, I'm in love with my best friend 2. I think u should just TELL HIM, and if he;s really ur friend, he won't leave u or change if he dosen't like u, but if he does like u (and I think he does indeed) AWSOME!.
Just go 4 it!.
Good luck!. :) :) :)
oxox,
Little Cowy
2006-11-09 10:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you haven't been interested in him for three years, what you're feeling how isn't what you think it is. Most likely it's been awhile since you've been in a relationship and you're realizing that he's always been there etc, so you're thinking maybe you should give him a try... Don't do it! I've tried this twice, and both times hurt and eventually lost a really close friend. You're not interested, you're lonely. Still, spend time with the guy, he's obviously a good guy and it sounds like you could use a good friend right now. But don't try for anything romantic or you'll loose him, and thats not worth it
2006-11-09 18:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally
2006-11-09 18:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by MoooDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should, but be aware that sometimes things wouldn't go too great. He might feel uncomfortable and reject you, since he might be afraid that your current friendship relationship wouldn't be the same, and everything will change. But just try, who knows, love starts off as a friendship, and then the friendship blossom, like a flower. ^^ And plus, a part of love is not only seeing your lover as a lover but a best friend also. One that you could tell anything to without fear, just like a best friend. So I say give it a try.
2006-11-09 18:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Fae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because I was in love with my B/F for years and she knew but did not tell me. For those long years all she did was just keep me around and once I told her she told me that maybe one day we could be together but she was not ready for a commitment even though she dated other guys. Long story short, she just used me and never gave me the time of day. To this day I still hurt and it was like 15 yrs ago, she was the first girl to break my heart. So yes, tell him while you still have time.
2006-11-09 18:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Skullsoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, I would closely watch him for a while to see any signs that he has a thing for you. However by watching him, it doesn't appear too don't tell him. This will only make youre relationship arkward. If this happens try to spend less time with him, which will leave you up for other potential suitors.Read these article to understand what I'm talking about. :3
http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001200.cfm
2006-11-09 18:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by DelightBunnie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had a friendship like that, you have no idea. ask yourself this question: do i want a life time friendship with this guy, or risk it?. if you tell him everything (as i understood) tell him you have feelings for him but you do not want to ruin the friendship, be sure of yourself as you tell him this, you have to tell him no matter what, since its eating you up. remember this; friendships can last forever, don't lose it.
2006-11-09 18:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your hints are too subtle... I would give him a few more obvious hints (be creative!) - then if he isnt interested you save both of you the embarrassment of him rejecting you.
2006-11-09 18:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys r usually shy so unless u make the move.. u guyz will jus b frnds.. so jus tell him .. at the rite time and the rite moment.. open ur world 4 him to explore.. gud luk!! :D
2006-11-09 18:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should just tell him you like him and if you guys go out then you would be happy. if you guys break up then just keep trying to still be his friend. i and still best friends with my xboyfriend.
2006-11-09 18:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by ~*♥Jessica♥*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋