ok my friends asked out this really hot guy for me and he said yes. the problem is talking to him he's just so hot that i get all nervous and quiet.
2006-11-09 10:08:35 · 17 answers · asked by insane1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its Ok I'm the exact same way. My crush acts like he likes me makes little hearts at me and stares @ me in a really farout spaced out, dreamy way. Everytime he does and he tries to say something to me I blush and hide my face wishing i would disappear. Don't worry. He likes you. And I'm sure he'll wait for you to get used to him before he ask's you anything and if you can't talk to him write a sweet little note that's what i do when I can't say my feelings
2006-11-09 10:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by suohthedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that you get nervous. I started dating my boyfriend and had the same problem. When I told him my problem he just kind of laughed and told me not to worry at all because he thought I was awesome. Try not to worry about it so much, chances are, he's feeling a little self conscious too. How can he find out that you're an awesome girl if you are intimidated of him?! He told your friends he wants to date you, so start talking!
2006-11-09 18:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, props to you for scoring a hottie! He said yes, so he is obviously interested in you. Just try to forget he's hot and realize that he likes you for you. If he thinks you're good enough, than you are, so let go of your insecurities and talk to the man.
2006-11-09 18:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I think you must believe in your own appearance as well or think as if he doesnt even know he is hot (which may be he doesn't even realize that yet.) I'd look at his as an individual and forget all the how-hot-he-is crap even though it may be a little challenging, but it can be done with the right attitude.
2006-11-09 18:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try to talk about your family and your favorite things. when me and my bf first started going out (he's hot too: ) i was really nervous but we talked about family and stuff and like what we did that day. i feel very comfortable around him. just don't worry about. try to talk about things ur comfortable with.
2006-11-09 18:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by ~emily~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, every time you see him, take a deep breath before you say anything. and no, if you really like him, the shakiness just won't go away. i still shake when i see my xbf. besides, he is your bf, isn't he? there should be no reason for you to be nervous. if he truly likes you, he'll like you just the way you are; nothing more, nothing less.
Hope it works out for you two. Good luck and God speed.
2006-11-09 18:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Renee Gibson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. Sometimes looks can be intimidating. I think you should just ask him questions about himself to start the conversation to feel more comfortable around him. I don't know any better advice to give you, but you just have to look past the good-looks and try to be his friend.
2006-11-09 18:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by katherinejean66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. He said yes which means he was interested. Go bowling or skating (some place you can have fun without being nervous). HAVE FUN.
2006-11-09 18:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Debbi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start asking him about himself,
try to over pass the hotness.
But if thats too hard,
just start making out,
that way you dont nessacerily need to be lookin 'at' him.
And he wont ablige.
2006-11-09 18:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Yulieth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make up your mind that you are going to be yourself and he can take it or leave it...just loosen up and realize that you are special and you can be yourself no matter how hot the guy is...
2006-11-09 18:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋