please help
2006-11-09 10:07:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure he has told you he has a plan but think about this - HE is about to do something stupid. Now he wants YOU to do something stupid. So he must think you are stupid enough to do it!!!!! Even if him running away is for a good reason like he is getting beat at home, why the hell would you go! At 15 and 16 you both cant make enough money to support Sea Monkeys let alone yourselves. PLEASE DONT DO IT!!! He can stay at my house and you can visit until he can get on his feet but DONT you both become wasted youths.
2006-11-09 10:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Winny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being 15, you've probably already made up your mind and only want people to root for you....I can tell you from experience, that getting married at 15-16 is not a good thing, the new wears off real quick. Plus, who works? who's going to provide if a baby happens? I ran away from home several times and was raped during one of those times....I got married to a guy, one month after I turned 17, it lasted 8 weeks. I'm now in my 40's and have been with the same man for over nine years....being young and hormonal isn't easy, believe me, I know, but wait and be patient, time allows for many changes and the heart knows no boundaries.
2006-11-09 18:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by sred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...things could be worse and in a year you'll look back and be thankful you didn't. First of all where are you going to go? How are you going to get money to pay for food, and a place to stay? What are you going to do when you get to your "destination"? What about school and your family? It's not worth all the heartache and drama you will cause your family and yourself. You are both young and running away from your problems is NOT the answer. You have so much of your life ahead of you, no matter how tough times are right now, they will get better, and you WILL have another boyfriend.
2006-11-09 18:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Life will be a struggle for you all day, all night and every day, every week, every month and every year. Patience is a virtue. If you both really think that at your age you can handle life just know that you CAN'T. Finish high school, go to college, get a job and if you are both still together at that point then you will have a much easier time dealing with just life in general not to mention your relationship. Life is hard. Work on your goals and dreams but be sensible about things, every thing. Good Luck
2006-11-09 18:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got three words for you: DON'T DO IT.
It simply spells out disaster. He can't even get a (legit) job, now what about taking care of you?
If you have a legit reason for wanting to run away, run away (with him, if you want) to a shelter.
2006-11-09 18:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!! In a few years you most likely will be with someone else. I've been in a situation like that before. Now I can't stand the man.
2006-11-09 18:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by tarashaclardy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. you will ruin your life. what about your family, what will they think and feel if you suddenly disappeared? get some help for your bf, maybe talk to a school counselor and ask for advice on convincing him not to go
2006-11-09 18:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM LET ME THINK FOR A.. DONT DO IT.
2006-11-09 18:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Terry The Terrible 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋