I have a crush on my co-worker, it has been three mouths now. I really like him. Buy the both of us where always to shy to say anything to each other. One of my co-worker last week without me knowing ask him if like's me. She said he acted really surprise and had a glow on his face. She also surprise me by telling me that. I told her I have to first find out his real age. When she found out that he was younger than I she told him it wouldn't work. So now I don't get the good mornings and good byes not even a hello. I try to talk to him but it seems he's avoiding me. I really like him a lot. But it seems he has lost his feelings for me. I don't know what to do?
2006-11-09 10:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by timeoutll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy to fix problems are what i do. This is easy to deal with if you know how to. If you want to go with him just ask but some people hate to get turned down with out a chance. if you do not want to go with him then stop him and get him to talk to you. Just ask him to be your friend and talk to him more even if he does not listen.
2006-11-09 10:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by darkangelquarantine7410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much of an age difference we talkin' here? I don't know.. older I get the less I think the age diff'd. make to me. I know when you are like in h.s. it's a 'really big deal' to be goin' w/someone only a year or two age difference, lol.. Let me see here.. Yeah, it kinda 'sux' somebody 'meaning well' (or DID she.. ya think she was tryin' to back stab ya here? she after him?) did this to ya. You ARE kinda really totally screwed I am afraid now, hon. You hurt his feelings (bad!) I don't know if ya can make this up to him or not.. (cause this supposed friend? she's to blame for kind of humiliating him.) Sorry. I am tryin' to be honest and this is how I see it. (I know.. it hurts...) The shy people (I used to be one) the take stuff a lot harder than the rest of us realize. (You said you were shy too, eh? That's interesting..) I think time is the only cure.. Wait another 3 months and write us, K? peace n luv
2006-11-09 10:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you let him go, all you gotta do it make him like you again, next time you see him smile and look up at him with your head down adn flutter your eyebrows. then when you get a chance tell your friend age dont matter and your going for him, then email him or just go ask him if he wants to join you for luch or go out in the week sometime.
if you like him this much all you have to do is get off your lazy butt adn make him see you everywhere till he asks you or even better ASK him!!!
2006-11-09 10:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by origamix60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that your friend lied to hi or if he acts like that then blow him off he is a jerk
2006-11-09 10:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on theirs more fish in the sea.
2006-11-09 10:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋