There is a guy in my school that I like and his name is John. He always finds some excuse to mess with me, even if its stupid or not. For example, on Friday he asked me where I was from and today he was joking around with one of his friends and he said that I took his friend's jacket (as a joke). Whenever I see him, hes usually looking at me and smiling and talking to his friends at the same time. Does he like me? If he does, then how do I tell him that I like him too, because if he doesn't, I don't want his friends to make fun of me for the rest of the year.
Thanks!
2006-11-09 10:01:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would return the "favor" back to him. I think that he likes you, and through his actions he shows that. Do what he does to you with your friends (and him), so that way (if he likes you), he'll notice what you're doing to him and realize this is so. If he doesn't though, and he sees you doing the same thing to him that he does to you, then he'll just think that you like him the way he likes you. Maybe you'll even get his attention (to like you) by doing this!
Good Luck!
2006-11-09 10:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way it sounds is like he does like you. Girls need to stop thinking the traditional way, where boy asks girl, girls can ask 2 & I think U should make the 1st move even if it's just a simple conversation. (More than 2 sentences) Give it a shot & if his friends make fun then maybe you should be glad that U didn't end up with someone that immature
2006-11-09 10:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes he does like you, but to what extreme is another question. As far as revealing your feelings to him, well you need to decide which is more important to you. 1)The possibility of having a relationship with this certain someone or 2)Chancing that if he doesn't that you would be the brunt of his friends jokes. I'm sure you know how cruel young adults can be or you wouldn't of even thought about that point. Good luck.
2006-11-09 10:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple ask him all sorts off question like who u seeing at the moment ask hu he likes at the moment and slowly hint tha you like him dont say it straig away other wise u may just be the fool soo if you find out e definantly likes u say we should get to gether sometime even if u dont do this face to face if could turn out for the best and his friend just fink they are goin o lose him to a girl so try it and see if it work it should do and if it dont im sorry !! and if he turns out not tolike you he was leading u on for a joke and not worth your time remember theres more than this certain boy in your life you'll find some one x x x x
2006-11-09 10:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... it sounds to me that he likes you or he is just a flirty guy. as far as telling him, without the risk of his friends making fun of you all year.... I would suggest giving him little hints (a smile here, flirty comment there) that leave him wondering if you like him and then he will probably approach you withouot his friends (everyone fears rejection in front of their friends) and then you wouldn't have to worry about telling him. Also, then if he doesn't like you back will act weird when you *hint* at him and it will tell you that he doesn't like you.
Good luck and enjoy all the school drama while it lasts- once you are out of school its little things like this you will miss.
2006-11-09 10:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be sure let him make the first move, that way no one is going to make fun of you but do let him know you like him without saying it in words you know smile at him if he talks to you answer him.
2006-11-09 10:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he likes you, maybe ask him to the library to study, or out for a burger, for his help on a project. Who cares what his friends say.
2006-11-09 10:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he likes you. And just go up to him and ask him out on a date if he likes you say yes. I do suggest you ask him out when he is alone. His friends won't help whether he likes you or not.
2006-11-09 10:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take him to the side and be like, "John, do you like me? (He'll say yes"). And you'll say, "I like you too. Do you wanna go out?"
As for his friends. Who cares. They'll get over it. If they make fun of you, then make fun of them back.
2006-11-09 10:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a guy and it sounds like your in high school so I would say he either genuinely likes you or hes trying to score with you.
2006-11-09 10:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋