My boyfriend cheated on me a year ago with a girl he use to date in school. I ended up finding out about it a week later and I gave him the chance to tell the truth.. I just found out from that everything he said was a lie and that he started everything!! From kissin her to taking her **** off and ect... Im now pissed.. Should I be?
2006-11-09 09:54:15 · 24 answers · asked by B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People lie for a reason, and sometimes people lie because they don't want to hurt you. Maybe he just didn't want to hurt you any more than you were already hurting by him cheating. He had already messed up and admitted it. If he would of went into all the details of the affair, I would of seriously been concerned if he cared about your feelings or not. If he cheats on you again, break up with him, but if he is truly sorry and things have been going good with ya'll since he confessed a year ago, let it go. Good luck.
2006-11-09 10:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...Ya U should be but the same thing happened to me about 8 months ago. I was always accusing my b/f about cheating on me and he'd always say no, I'm not cheating on U and I'm promise and all this stuff but at a dance I went to and e came along...He wouldnt hang out w/ me at all, then my friend said that this one gurl I thought he was cheating oon me w/ was wearing the necklace I got him...well we found out he was chetaing on us w/eachother and I told her I wanted my necklace back and stuff but then we both started to cry and all he did was go back to her and I left but I still went back out w/ him and everyone said he'd cheat again...which I think he did so..He lied and everyone says "once a cheater always a cheater" I belive that now but I still love him anywayz...But if he lies to you then just listen to yourself and no one else. Your heart will tell you more than anyone couldâ¥
2006-11-09 18:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be pissed.. It feels a lot better than betrayed... The question is how do you deal with it? Just move on with your life and learn from it.
2006-11-09 17:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by gjm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be. You don't need a guy whos going to lie and cheat on you. You deserve better.
2006-11-09 17:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by aiken877 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well of course ur pissed! now dump him. if u cheated on someone and lied about would u expect him to stay with you? i wouldn't.
2006-11-09 17:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by samhanjosh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I sure would be and I would leave him alone. Once a cheater always a cheater. Move on and leave his pathetic non trust worthy cheating behind alone. God bless
2006-11-09 17:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course! He lied and cheated on you. Move on to someone who respects you.
2006-11-09 17:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be. He lied to you. What else is he going to lie about, and when will he cheat next? That is what i would ask myself. Talk to him about it.
2006-11-09 17:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Stark 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Pissed at the lies.
2006-11-09 17:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheater - i dont care who you are - no one should be treated that way - you can get better- dump him and move on
2006-11-09 17:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋