okay well today me & one of my friends who happends to know a loooot of boys went to subway. so amy, my friend, she introduced me to one of the REALLL popular guys named dave. dave is reallyyy cute (: he goes to my school & i never thought i'd actually get the chance 2 meet & talk to him! =]] but i did today. and i was realll happy to have a friend like amy. but now, at school... on monday.. if i see him, should i say hi to him? give him a hug? he's so popular && he's always around a popular crowd... but i'm sure he's use to giving a loot of girls hugs so i think i should... i want to hug him, i just dont wanna be uncomfortable.. or maybe i should just say hi? hah he even knows my name!! so he should say hi to mee :) hah idkk thanks!
2006-11-09 09:38:56 · 15 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No don't hug him, cause he could like push you away and embarass you a ton. I would say hi, cause then he couldnt really do anything mean except ignore you. Better safe than sorry! Stick with the "hi" and if HE hugs YOU then you can hug him back. But I dont recomend hugging him first.
2006-11-09 09:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Why Not 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First question: Why do you like this dude? Do you think he's cute because...he's popular?
Or do you find him attractive because he is attractive to YOU.
When you talk to him, bring him down to your level. Ask him questions and find out if he's real or not. Good questions to ask....where does he see himself in 5 years, besides physical attributes, what do you look for in a girl.....
Ask questions that will give him the impression that you are really intrested him....because you are...... arent you?
If he's that popular, he has numerous girls approaching him ASKING AND OFFERING the same thing. Why would you want to be the same?
Dont let this guy break your heart in vain. Popularity can really blind you to important things that you need to see when feelings are involved.
Gudluk w/ your pursuit, and make sure you make sure that your happy in the end.
2006-11-09 17:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. As for saying 'Hi', definently.
2.As for the hug, it depends on how well of a friendship you guys have together. If you had a great time at Subway, and you guys really enjoyed your time together, then maybe you should hug him.
3. Plus, even though he is cute/popular, doesn't mean he's worth your time, do you know what I mean? He could be a jerk, but like I said, if you guys had a great time and it worked out well, then he's probably okay.
2006-11-09 17:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by blinkbackyesterday@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in your shoes a decade ago. I had a crush on someone who was popular and in football. I was just an ordinary girl. No extracurricular activities, sports, or academics. Back in junior high, I asked him out. I had two other "friends" with us, while I talked to him after lunch. It still hurt from what he said. He just wanted to be friends, even in high school. Especially in front of two friends. When I found out he was nominated for Homecoming King, I nominated myself by putting my name on the list and lost. So take it from me who had loads of experience. Just be yourself. Just say hi and smile. Talk to him. Be friendly. Maybe he'll make a move on you and ask you out. Don't go overboard by hugging. Don't come on too strong.
2006-11-09 17:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say hi and try to make small talk, try the 1-3 questions approach (after that you may appear to be borderline stalker):
Hey dave!
Hey girl from the subway!
how was the rest of your weekend?
cool cool me and the guys hangin out playing video games
Yeah? me and amy ended up back at my house watching movies and hanging out, it was cool. bell is about to ring, see you around!
ok subway girl, see ya!
from there hopefully he will speak when he sees you, but be sure not to be all "HI DAVE, HIIIII!" to pushy.
2006-11-09 17:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by ErikaCane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be real casual
when u see him just hi
dont be all happy and bubbly around him
if u do he might think ur kinda immature
so hold all dat excitedness inside
just give him a friendly smile and say hi
after awhile of that give him hugs
2006-11-09 17:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hi and give him a nice smile, if he is interested and wants a hug, he will initiate it. If he does then let him.
2006-11-09 17:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would start out a little slower, like just smile and wave, but i wouldn't hug him yet... in case he's not ready for that, if he wants to hug you, i'm sure he will make the move himself
2006-11-09 17:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by stephhh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becuose you met him once doesnt mean that you can hug him it just means that you can say hi Dave not oh can i give you a hug no waay helllo ! ggtwatkgtbadry what the hell r u thinking do not do that wacko!
2006-11-09 17:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dana T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol dont hug him, that would be to weird, you just met him right and had a few words?...Well if u see him around just say Hi and smile....no HUGS!
2006-11-09 17:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋