2006-11-09 09:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by K. L. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The best advice! starts with this question, asked of your parents, this method is called "open conversation" Try the "no holds barred, non recourse method" let it all out, in a controlled manner, as though you were talking to your self or best friend.
Now, the hard part is to listen,. Make sure, and this will be your only resolve at this time. is to understand their reply . Then tell them you will reply to there statement the following day after you sleep on it! Follow these steps as laid out here-in, I guaranty results...
2006-11-09 10:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by diSota 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How to deal with parents? Well take it from me it's just as hard the other way around, How to deal with your kids? Believe me since I have 4 (3 teens and a 9 year old) There is no easy answer as there are just too many variables involved. The simple easy way is communication, I am not saying you will agree on everything because the chances of that happening are slim to none! But you must communicate! Talk to them and you may be suprised, because we do listen as well as offer advice. You must be open and truthful and willing to make compromises and communication can lead to such a wonderful relationship! Yes it takes hard work on both parts but give it a try . I have such a good relationship with all of my kids simply because we have always talked. Yes definately we have bumped heads and often disagreed and even argued but we always knew exactly where we stood! Putting all of the hard feelings out there, no secrets. Then you can go from there... just try to understand them as you want them to understand you! As parents we learn as we do, there is no parent manual, as there is no child manual for life. Just realize that parents are people too and they make mistakes as you do, You should not have to" deal with parents" you should be able to talk to them and work it out! One final thought, Parents love you more than anyone else and usually they know you so much better, parents only have your best interest in mind so keep that in mind. Sincerely a caring mom!
2006-11-09 09:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really haven't explained what you are saying. As long as you live in their house, there will be certain rules, that must be followed. If you have a problem with something they are doing or have said, you should go to them and discuss it, in a calm way.
2006-11-09 11:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to listen to your parents because your parents always know what is right for you
2006-11-09 09:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be to quick, but we need to know the problem
2006-11-09 09:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by elisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in their house - SUBMIT TO THEM.
2006-11-09 09:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋