A colleague of mine became my best friend. I've got a bf, he has a gf too, but I feel he's attracted to me...

Question

Right...I have this colleague with whom I became very close over the past year.We laugh a lot, get along great, are respectful and love spending time together.We both love and mean a lot to each other. I've got a bf with whom things are going well, he has a gf but things there are not really flourishing.I clarified in the very beginning I was not looking for anything but friendship and he confirmed the same.
When we got closer,I noticed he was quite into me.Not that he ever said anything, but he doesn't hide I'm beautiful, sexy, intelligent, funny.I dont want to say a strong word but he looks at me with the eyes of someone in love.I've been trying to convince myself in the contrary but from an objective point of vie it's an infatuation. Once after a night out he walked me home and when he hugged me goodbye, I felt he was hard. He kept me long in his arms,so he didn't really want to hide it.The day after all was as usual. We're still great pals...but I keep wondering what it all means?

This last thing happened months ago and we never discussed it.I think that if I was into him, something would've happened that night.Because he did seem willing to engage.But he knows I don't see him this way.

Answer 1

Until you are both single, you are NOT AVAILABLE to each other, or anyone else. He's probably a great guy, but he is not yours for the taking right now. Have some respect and back off.

Answer 2

every guy wants to have sex. he is hoping that one day you will say, colleague, lets just keep the relationship we have now and have sex. if he wants you truly as a friend, then he's probably gay.

Answer 3

you need to wait and see what happpens

Answer 4

i think he likes you

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