i am 23, a guy, and i want your thoughts!!!!! details, basically what can i do to get a girls attention, what do ya look for
2006-11-09 09:33:55 · 17 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well when i started goin out with my boyfriend i didnt think he was attractive at all but after i got to noe hi he was the HOTTEST guy in the world..only thi9ng you need is to be yourself!
2006-11-09 09:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by kellydarcey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice teeth, smile and eyes are a given, and I personally like big guys. I mean, any decent-looking guy over 250 lbs can get my attention, so long as he's no acting like an idiot. Skinny men just seem wimpy. They have to be dressed appropriately for the occasion, laid back and look like someone I'd want to take home.
2006-11-09 09:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you got to be eye-candy and easy on the eyes. A good sense of humor and personality, who likes animals and close to the family. A good body who has some muscles and tan, and not a slob. Good hygeniene. Someone who takes care of himself and looks after others by putting them first.
To get a girl's attention, you need to charm and woo her. Tell her a good joke. Don't be a show off. Write poetry and love letters like her secret admirer. Tell her how you feel. Be yourself. If you're into sports, try out for a team. If not, find another extracurricular activity. If you like her, make the first move by approaching her not to subtle.
2006-11-09 09:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not girls look for alot of the same things you guys do. Do you look like you just rolled out of bed, or are you dirty from work, take the time to clean up and look like you give a damn. But as far as physical appearances, clean teeth top priority!!! Then just be yourself. My philosophy is that sexy is an attitude not a look.
2006-11-09 09:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get a wide variety of answers, since everyone likes something different.
I think the big overall picture that appeals to most women is being clean (brushing teeth/bathing daily), smelling good, and dressing neatly. Also, SMILE! That's a great way to get a woman to notice you.
2006-11-09 09:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man that is most attractive to a woman is one who is caring and careful. He knows who he is, but doesn't need to "show off". His confidence comes from deep within. He's careful to take care of himself," he practices good hygene, has good eating and excercise habits, without being obsessive of any of them. He notices the needs of others and helps, without trying to "fix" the problem.
So....look in the mirror, accept yourself for who you are, note your positive qualities, and get rid of the negative ones. Learn what it means to be a man after God's heart.
2006-11-09 09:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by GrandmaamylovesJesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
white teeth, well dressed, nicely groomed(but not metrosexual) nice shoes. but if you are 23 and still can't get girl's attention you better ask some female close to you what are you doing wrong.
2006-11-09 09:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have to be sweet,faithful,funny,i like him to have a nice smile , a nice body is a good thing to but is not required and he has to at least "TRY" to get along with my family.
2006-11-09 09:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always the smile.. and the eyes.. Always looking at the female with the smile gets thier attention.
2006-11-09 09:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hair. Good forearms. Clean fingernails. Clean shaven. Cologne...but not a ton of it.
2006-11-09 09:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋