I have been separated from my wife for nine months realised I loved her more than i thought. I am afraid she has moved on. Last night I visted her and we slept together she confessed she had slept with someone the previous day. I wanted to take her back but this is the third time its happened this year. Should I move on and still be the door met. I know i did wrong But I wann try for the sake of the two kids we have. She wants me to baby sit for her while she goes out with this guy. Why am I so weak. I guess everthing jhas span out of control. She told me she really likes this guy.I cant believe this is happening to my family its like I am watching a horror movie. Can someone smac me back into reality. I dont know what to do. I have tried conselling. I have talked to her but it still has nt worked. She wants to go to this guys birthday party this weeknend and wants me to baby sit again. I have told her I cant to that. I dont know if the guy she is seeing knows everything. Well its ames
2006-11-09 09:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by Tindofella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you were my buddy I'd beat the sh1t out of you to have you wake up and smell the coffee
Don't take her back but keep her number for booty call
2006-11-09 09:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that that has happened to you. You sound like a great guy and a great dad!! Your wife doesn't seemed to know what she has lost. But,to tell you the truth....it's probably for the best. If I were you I would take her to court and get custody of your kids. Obviously she's more worried about this guy than ya'lls kids. I hope everything goes right for you. God bless and good luck!!
2006-11-09 09:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit making things worse. As hard as it sounds, try dating someone else. The problem is that you're still clinging to this woman, and the sex never helps. It's really a cliche to say it, but if you really like her, let her go. Eventually you'll move on, seems like she already had. And besides, YOU MADE ANOTHER GIRL PREGNANT. Take care of that "mistake" before you continue on your path.
2006-11-09 09:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Harb Frame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you want to make it work and she doesn't. I'm sorry to say this but your girl sounds like a s*@# to me. How can she sleep with one guy one night then hop into bed with you the next. Do you honestly want to be with her? I know I wouldn't...and she doesn't even want you. She has already made that clear when she asked you to take the kids...just move on. You deserve much better!
2006-11-09 09:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetely move on because Face it she is JUST using you and you really dont need to be treated like that. Think to yourself who was the one that cheated over and over again and i know both of you have cheated previously but she doesnt want to make it work so MOVE ON!!
2006-11-09 09:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by m&m's are the best !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a question here, but you better get a good job, (maybe a second one too) because you have some big responsibilities to some children. I feel real sorry for them for having a father like you. They did nothing to deserve it.
2006-11-09 09:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by rhymingron 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up and now you are paying for it. Heard of Karma?
**** that you throw around comes back and slaps you in the face sometimes and when it does I bet it's fun for her to watch. Enjoy!
2006-11-09 09:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by pp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over move on.
2006-11-09 09:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on its over ''''' you did it '''''
2006-11-09 09:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by hotlava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋