im in a new class and there is this guy...earlier he asked me if i wanted to hang out and i said i was going to be at my BOYFRIENDS (it wasnt a lie..and keep in mind i had only known him like 2 days) well so later he asked me if he could play with my phone and called his from it to get my number. so he started texting me and asked me to hang out again (for the next day) i just didnt answer. then sunday he texted me, and asked again monday and everytime i would say no i can im busy or im hanging out with my boyfriend. he just wont leave it alone, he calls me all the time and texts me 2 times as much...i didnt even GIVE him my number in the first place-and i dont want to be rude. help?
2006-11-09 09:28:33 · 8 answers · asked by *Cole* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not rude to tell someone that you are not interested in them as anything more than a friend. Not telling them is leading them to believe that there is more to the imagined friendship than really exists.
2006-11-09 09:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to get rude. Have your boyfriend answer the phone and tell him where to go ;)
2006-11-09 17:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be rude just be firm.
I'm not interested, I'm involved with someone, don't call my phone again.
Isn't there a way to block him? If not just delete his messages without responding.
2006-11-09 17:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to remove your name from his list and you are not interested in him period.....
you have to be up front with him, he doesn't get the hint...
Have a gf with you when you tell him.....
2006-11-09 17:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to set him straight he does not need to be blowing up your phone like that an d he need to stop. get your bf to get on him he really need help
2006-11-09 17:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up girl.. tell him to leave u alone and change your number..
2006-11-09 17:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're misunderstanding him - He could just want to be your friend!
2006-11-09 17:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he really like you tell him GENTLY that your happy with ur current guy and that you wanna be just friends!
2006-11-09 17:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by kellydarcey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋