well i need guys help and girls too,iguess. Ok well theres this guy at school that goes tomy church, and he used to go to adifferent middle school then me but now were in high skool so we go to the same school. Hes EXTREMELY shy and hardly ever smiles except when hes with his two best friends. I dont know much about him, but i really wish i did. Today I asked him why he didnt fgo to church and he actuallt talked!! and smiled at me and it was a BIG smile. I think i like him but do you think his smile mean he liked me? and if so how can i get to know him better since hes so shy???????
2006-11-09 09:28:18 · 22 answers · asked by iluvhandsom. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im alre4ady REALLY GOOD friends with one of his friends and kina with his other
2006-11-09 09:31:52 · update #1
apparently the church deal is your ticket in. try and talk to him while your in there or talk about that, then move on to another topic. u should be able to make progress somehow with those.
good luck, i hope u get what u want
2006-11-09 09:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAME THING HAPPENED 2 me with this guy who was also extremely shy, and I liked him a lot. I think he DOES like u. I think u should continue 2 talk 2 him like that and then try and ask his best friends 2 go with u and ur friends 2 the movies or something and 2 bring their friends along, then he'll come. Try 2 go really preety or something and b really really nice 2 him and his friends and smile a LOT!. Hope this helps!, and good luck!.
oxox,
Little Cowy
p.s. Whatever u do, REMEMBER 2 talk 2 him, if u don't u'll b sorry, believe me!, I never talked 2 that boy, and later his friends told me that he liked me the whole time, but it was 2 late because I changed schools :(, and I'm sorry 4 not doing anything about it!.
2006-11-09 09:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep asking hiim questions. Ask for info., help, and/or directions. No "damsel in distress crap" or "poor, little, idiotic me" with lots of eyelash batting. It just makes you look like an airhead or a pea-brained fool and like you have no other worthy or admirable qualities or intelligence.
DO ask legitimate questions and extend the conversations and you'll be friends before you know it and you'll both have an opportunity to get to know each other better. .
Then, when he's finding it easy and comfortable to talk to you, invite him out in a group setting so there's little pressure. Then you can move on from there in the direction you'd like.
From your last contact and his response, it looks like you might already be on your way, even if you only end up being friends.
2006-11-09 09:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy for some one who use to be shy. You can't tell if he likes you by just a smile you have to digg deeper than that. One thing to do is talk to him more. Don't stalk him or make him uneasy but the reason he smiled is to make people think he is happy when he truly is not or maybe he just does not like to smile. If you want to get to know him talk to his friends a little and find out what he like so you can talk about something on his mind. Just don't jump to quick..
2006-11-09 09:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by darkangelquarantine7410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him more and try to find some common ground. Try to get him out of his "shy" shell. Befriend him. As for his smile, I think it's a sign he likes you, or maybe he's happy you talked to him, or both. Keep at it. He'll open up to you more and smile a lot.
2006-11-09 09:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him! Don't stalk him or anything. But, when you see him say hi and start a small conversation. Baby steps, you've gotta crawl before you can walk. I'm sure he'll get the hint sooner or later. Just don't rush it!!!
2006-11-09 09:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this applies but when I make friends with shy girls it akward and hard at first but after awhile the ice breaks and its really easy to talk to them.
2006-11-09 09:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Crisscross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly, speak to him when you see him, and see what happens. If he is really shy, be prepared to do a lot of the conversation starting.
Good luck ! I wish I were that young again.
2006-11-09 09:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
smile doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you. try to get him to talk more. i'm a shy person myself, and shy people are not good at starting conversations. you should always try to start the conversation and get it going in order to get to know him more.
2006-11-09 09:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by jard jard binx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so,why don't you ask him over to study?or invite him to meet you at a movie or something?you didn't tell us how old you are,so i'm assuming your parents will let you date?shy boys are usually the sweetest ones,be patient,take things slow and be his friend for awhile and see what happens!love after all is...friendship on fire!
2006-11-09 09:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by tinaluvsglass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋