Ok...i've been dating me boyfriend for 2 years,for about 2 weeks,i've been talkin to my ex bf on the phone,just the other night my ex told me he still loves me,and to be honest,i think i still love him. Is this considered cheating??
2006-11-09 09:27:28 · 23 answers · asked by Cassie1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not yet, but it's headed that way. Figure out who u want and move in the right direction before u cheat.
2006-11-09 09:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Paige R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you consider it cheating if the shoe was on the other foot? If you found out your current boyfriend was doing the same with his ex what you say it was then? Only you can answer that...if anything you are being dishonest and unloyal to the relationship you are presently in. I am all for love and following your heart, but what ever happened to ending one thing before beginning another? It's not fair to your boyfriend nor to yourself...you don't need the stress of wondering if your behavior is right or wrong and he does not deserve to be treated with that disrespect. Listen to your heart and make sure you consider others feelings when doing those things that make you happy...like I said, listen to your heart, but also use some common sense.
Good Luck.
2006-11-09 09:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Baby♥Girl♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's not cheating. However, what you're doing with your ex could be considered an emotional affair. if you still have feelings for your ex, or even think you do, you most likely are falling out of love with your current boyfriend. You need to break it off with him if you think you have feelings for another guy, because thats not fair to him. Seriously think about what you're doing though- are you really in love with your ex, or are you unhappy in your current relationship? Remember why you and your ex broke up, there was probably a good reason, and that reason still exists. Are you willing to go back to that? If not, then stop the contact with your ex immediately and start working on your current relationship to see if you can salvage it. If you think about it and you really do love your ex, break up with your current boyfriend to let him find someone who loves him unconditionally. Then let yourself be single for a month or two to see if you still have the same type of feelings for your ex after that long, try dating-but take it slow and keep your heart guarded. I don't envy the position you're in, good luck!
2006-11-09 09:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been seeing the same guy for 2 years? Do you love him? Why did you even start talking to your ex? Did being a little bad feel good? Why did it take your ex 2 years to say he still loves you? Maybe just because you are with someone else. Hang up the phone!
2006-11-09 09:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel unfaithful when you think of your current boyfriend? If you think you still love the ex, you have two choices: Either break up with your current to explore your feelings toward the old boyfriend, or tell yourself you can't re-live the past and stop communicating with your ex. It's just playing with fire. If you keep going the way you are, the next step WILL be cheating. Good luck.
2006-11-09 09:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Zenchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in a way you are cheating because you're not being honest or up front with your current boyfriend. You should probably break up with your boyfriend to take some time to decide what you really want in life. How would you feel if your boyfriend was talking to his ex girlfriend and she was telling him how much she loved him? You'd probably feel pretty awful. You should end things now, to avoid further hurt.
2006-11-09 09:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Much has been on the news over the past few years about Shane Warne one of our best cricket bowlers and his texting other women and his affairs .So I believe this is a form of cheating and your new boyfriend would'nt like it ,obviously he is not good enough for you or you would'nt even think about someone else .You appear not to want to settle down so the truth must be told by you .It may hurt your present boyfriend but it would hurt much greater later so please do it now at least talk to him about it and give him a chance to use his free will then if he decides to stay with you if something goes wrong he has only his self to blame.
2006-11-09 09:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes you are cheating. You may not be cheating physically but emotionally you are. Shame on you, let me tell you that first off! Secondly, if you still loved your exboyfriend, why would you move onto another relationship if you werent ready? You need to end it with either your boyfriend or your exboyfriend, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
2006-11-09 09:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me it is not cheating, But if I was your bf I would be mad as all get out. You should break up with your bf if you still have feelings for the old bf. It is not right of you to be talking to the old bf behind the new ones back.
2006-11-09 09:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any more contact (even by phone) with your ex from this point on would be considered cheating.
2006-11-09 09:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋