ok my boyfrind and i have been going out 4 like 2 or 3 months and he so shy he will not kiss me or hold my hand or huge me i have noy tryed to make the first move he is scared that wat his friend told me that he said sould i mack the first make the first move is it normal should i just wait ????? <3
2006-11-09 09:25:34 · 12 answers · asked by saidy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to me. Forget boys and concentrate on school.
You have "noy tryed"?
He won't hold your hand "and huge" you?
"Sould you mack the first move"?
Oh, honey no.
Besides, there's something up with him other than the fact that he's shy if it's been 2 or 3 months without a kiss.
2006-11-09 09:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well 2 or 3 months is a long time with no hugs or anything. If you want something physical to happen then looks like you are going to have to at least meet him 90% of the way. Then he may loosen up on you some.
2006-11-09 17:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by ejk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly, not to aggressive...touch his hand when u laugh. Sit close to him but dont smother him. And slowly work ur way to a hug. Or break the ice and just ask him why he hasn't kissed u. He might just want 2 respect u.
2006-11-09 17:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paige R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it has to be the women to make the first move, like this case.
yes , you should make the first move.
but im afraid it will be like that for ever,
if you do it once , your gonna to do it forever .
or he will learn how to make moves or he will be expecting all is life for someone to do it.
make the first move , when is comfortable make sure he understands that it must make is moves if he wants to grow up in the world of love.
Orbytall
2006-11-09 17:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by orbytall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should wait a bit more, and then u come and hug him or something. And if someday he's having a bad day or something bad happened 2 him, u should comfort him and then kiss him. Maybe he's just a bit shy.
Good luck!,
oxox,
Little Cowy
2006-11-09 17:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try doing something different... going skating, rollerblading. paint ball, football, tennis,something that will let him relax in your company... Guys get all excited about sports and maybe this will make him feel more at ease with you. Maybe the pressure of dating is too much for him and if you make it more fun he might like that better
2006-11-09 17:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if nur scared to make the first move clear the air by talking to him or make hints lyk wen watchin a movie i wish i cud b kissed lyk dat
2006-11-09 17:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by hunni_b21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be laid back with the whole thing, talk to him about it while doing it. force it, but dont force too hard. if that makes any sense.
i say go for it though, hes just intimidated still. just gota make him as comfortable as possible when u do whatever u do.
2006-11-09 17:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg,im tryin to get with a shy guy,they really are rubbish at this stuff (no offence to them).i really like hjim and want to be with him so i am gonna talk to him more and ask him out ans whatever,so its about makin the 1st move,go girl,he'll be pleased!!
2006-11-09 17:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. Someone has to make the first move.
2006-11-09 17:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋