In the summer, I went to Geauga Lake with my church youth group. I met this boy and he is my age ( he went with us ). He was really nice and sweet and took me on all the rollercoasters and stuff. He likes me and I see him all the time at church. He is my cousins friend too and he told him he like me a lot!! I want to date him, only one problem, my dad doesnt want me to date! The guy i met at geauga lake is really special and i think i love him. My cousin says i should date him without telling my dad and he would cover for me but i am afraid. What would you do? What should I do? Please help!!
2006-11-09 09:21:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you love him, but that's just me being in my 20s and figuring that you're probably around 12 or 13 years old.
Two things to ponder: has there ever been anything in your life that you wanted and you didn't get? Do you still feel empty inside becuase you didn't get that thing? Probably not.
Second: How far away do you live from this prospective love interest?
If you don't "date" him, you'll get over it eventually.
2006-11-09 09:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating him behind your parents back when they have told you not yet is not a good idea. Your cousin is giving you bad advice. After your parents find out and they distrust you will you feel good about having dated him. Apply some of that church youth group learning.
2006-11-09 17:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem, well, sort of lol i had never had a boyfriend, and then i met this guy who i really liked, and he liked me back! we hung out all the time and he was really sweet and really nice, (and hott) lol but the problem my parent's didn't want us to date because he was a freshman in college and i was a sophomore in high school. people told me we should date behind my parent's back anyways, but i didn't because i figured they'd find out and i'd get in even bigger trouble. so i worked on them for two months and finally they let me. i just had to prove to them that i was responsible enough. talk to your parents, they'll appreciate you more for it. plus, what happens if they do find out you've been dating secretly? then you'll be in even bigger trouble, and then you really won't be allowed to date him. good luck!
2006-11-09 17:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by crzyhottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your age. If you are over 13 I say it is okay to talk to him, but be sure to let him know how your father feels. If he still wants 2 talk u, go 4 it!!! And later try to talk to your dad again, w/out throwing a fit over his rules. Let him know u r jus friends and want to hang out!
2006-11-09 17:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Paige R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF YOU DO THE RIGHT THING TRY TO BE RESPONSIBLE BE FOR YOU HAVE A BOY FRIEND AND MA BY YOUR DAD WILL UNDERSTAND IF NOT JUST TELL THE BOY TO WAIT A WHILE AND JUST EXPLAIN TO YOUR DAD WHY YOU SHOULD HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND MAY BE HE WILL UNDERSTAND?!!
2006-11-09 17:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by bootz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't mean to be a prude...but the fact that you just said you love him shows that ur not ready to date "date". maybe you should try the whole casual boyfriend thing.
2006-11-09 17:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by maralshabak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be helpful to know your age, but i'd say under 16, forget it....16 or older, go for it
2006-11-09 17:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by timmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HHmm. How old r u? That is the question.. Otherwise, just go out w/ him anyway. thats what i did.
2006-11-09 17:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you r dad doesnt know wont hurt him
2006-11-09 17:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont do it
2006-11-09 17:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋