Well, I spoke with my X-gal yesterday for a while at which time we cleared up some things. We last spoke two months ago. She said that she still thinks about me. I told her that I was sorry for what I did and that I still loved her. I asked her out for dinner next week and she said that she would think about it. This morning she received some rosas that I had delivered. As of know I have not heard from her? Why?
2006-11-09 09:18:52 · 16 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Roses might be moving too fast.
She told you she would think about going out, and you jumped the gun on her. SLOW down. The ball is in her court, and even though it's tough and you don't like it, you need to leave it there and be patient. If it's meant to be, it will be. Just hang tight, keep yourself busy, and no that whatever is best will be.
2006-11-09 09:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pressuring her...just back off. Sending her roses is sweet, but not a good idea. You two are obviously exs for a reason and when you bumped into one another and you want to hang out, she is probably having some doubts. So, she needed some time to think without you pressuring her into a dinner. The ball is in her court and she knows it...just let her sort some things out and she will get back to you.
2006-11-09 17:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just havin a bad day and wanted some attention. Quit spending ya money on an underserving lil tramp. Find you a nice girl who will call you when she gets the flowers. Like any respectable woman would do.
2006-11-09 17:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Fat-Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't ask her out and deliver flowers. You go over there personally w/ the flowers. Face-to-face.
Calling = words: Don't you know actions speak louder than words.
Delivery = Strange delivery person: This shows that you're afraid of her and have no confidence.
2006-11-09 17:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be she is expecting more 'treatments'.
Have you convinced her that you will not repeat the mistake?
Maybe she found someone else.
But for sure she is going to loose interest if you come across very strongly. Give her 48hrs to think about it.
2006-11-09 17:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by pp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c she's feeling pressured and probably confusion wondering what she should do and if she should let herself fall for you again. She's trying to be cautious and just make sure she doesn't get hurt again. Be patient.
2006-11-09 17:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. Ive went thru the same situation witha guy. he needed to give me some thinking space. maybe shes confused or feels rushed into she doesnt feel comfortable. write her a little note that says, ill give you time to talk and if you have that tiem please explain to me how you feel and call em back.Thank you.
Its that simple, good luck!
2006-11-09 17:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by lady bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably trying to hard to get her back...let her have her space and then she back say yes or come back
2006-11-09 17:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by ga gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a minute your not being very specific about this story ok! what century or year did you break-up in.
2006-11-09 17:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by cute184 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's your ex...she told you that she still thinks about you, not that she still loves you.
2006-11-09 17:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋