Honesty is the best policy.
2006-11-09 09:15:47 · 27 answers · asked by M.A.T. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I haven't. Karma's a biotch!
2006-11-09 09:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager I had this guy friend that I think had some serious feelings for me. Everytime I'd break up with whoever I was dating, I'd go running to him because I knew he'd comfort me and make me feel better. I wasn't interested in him in a romantic way, I just mainly wanted someone to hear me whine. I feel bad about it now because I realize what an immature little ***** I was. He and I drifted apart after high school and I hear he's engaged to a really sweet girl. I'm married to a really sweet man and happy for the old friend. I'm ashamed of what I did to him, though- it was wrong.
2006-11-09 09:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hang my head in shame, I did it twice. It was MANY years ago when I was in highschool. I befriended a guy because I knew he didn't have a date yet for the prom, and I really wanted to go even though I wasn't a senior. I also mislead a guy into thinking I liked him so he would send me a sweatshirt from his university. I'm a sleaze, I know. The sweatshirt was probably expensive and he never heard from me again. I would never do something so immature again.
2006-11-09 09:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by alkenlem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I did, the stupidest thing I've ever done. He was attracted to me and he was much older then me, I was young and wanted some attention. He was so obsessed with me that he asked me to marry him after a month, I said that I couldn't, he asked to at least take the ring as a promise ring, and when I did, he announced to everyone he knew that we were engaged. It went downhill from there, and now I have a restraining order against him, its been 2 years since.
2006-11-09 09:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I see no reason to use a guy. However, a friend of mine used to make it a regular practice. She'd use guys for money, clothes, sex, or any other thing she needed at the time. Pretty sad. A lot of the guys really liked her too, and then would ask me what her deal was. I never knew what to tell them. She was a whore.
2006-11-09 09:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have used a guy, but he knew it and didn't mind. I used a guy (gay nonetheless) to pretend he was my boyfriend. This guy I didn't like at all, in fact, he really annoyed me, decided he and I were "simply meant to be". We weren't. So one day when annoying man asked me out I told him I had just started dating JJ (gay friend). Annoying man and JJ didn't know each other. I then ended up having to go to a function on campus where annoying man would be. I had to call JJ and beg him to pretend to be my boyfriend for a night. He agreed. So technically I used him, but he understood and knew.
(In fact he used me a few months later to convince a family member he was straight...that was weird)
2006-11-09 09:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I could have. One of my guy friends (an overweight, poorly dressed, 19-year-old gamer) had a crush on me when we took drama together. If I wanted to, I probably could have made him my man-servant. Instead, I told him that I just wanted to be friends. He agreed.
2006-11-09 09:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Status...He knew lots of prominent people in the community and we were always getting invited places to meet new people.
2006-11-09 09:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by So What 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not use people, male or female. I am a lesbian and I think that is a terribly wrong thing for anyone to do to another human being. :)
2006-11-09 09:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. all the guys i've ever gone out with i went with them because i liked them, not because i wanted something from them. and thats the honest truth, i have been used befor.
2006-11-09 09:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋