okay me and my ex have broke-up and come back togeather 6-7 times is this bad or good?
2006-11-09 08:47:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just see what happens next and i think it's a bad thing.
2006-11-09 08:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's bad and the reason I say that is because it's a cycle. You are both likely to continue this behavior until someone decides to stop it! I know b/c me and my ex were like this for 6 years. On and off. It isn't healthy. He always thought I woould be there and for the most part my behavior allowed him to think that. At one point I couldn't take it anymore and decided that it was time for me to stop the cycle and continue on with my life. You don't want to be stuck in a continuous unhealthy releationship! Your boyfriend won't stop this behavior if he's too accustomed to it like mine was! Hopefully you'll stop this cycle yourself when you've reached your breaking point! I know it can be hard but it's better to try and be in a healthy releationship with someone else! Good Luck!
2006-11-09 08:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok its not a good sign!!!!..it means that you have feelings for each other, but theres a big issue that hasnt been solved, and maybe next time you two decide to get back together you should sit down before and talk about all the issues...Also make sure his intensions are good and that hes not playing you
2006-11-09 08:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by ap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i do too. no just kidding BAD VERY, VERY, BAD. Ask yourself, why do you keep breaking up? Is this what I want for the rest of my life, on again off agian relationship. or do you want someone that will be there for you wherever, whenever. Are they always goingto be there to pick you up if you fall, or will they say good for you, or i told you so. I think you already know the answer, your just looking for justification that its wrong.
2006-11-09 08:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by tsd574 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD. communicate and find out why you two are breaking up all the time. and work on it. if you two can't find a level ground, then you two needs to stick to being away from each other. there was no love loss. or probably you two keeps getting back together because it's comfortable. you think? well, you'll get used to being single again.
2006-11-09 08:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is bad.I guess it depends on who breaks up with who and what the reasons are for if its a continuos thing like everytime you guys fight and the solution is always lets just break up than maybe you guys should just mess around that gets old real fast and you will end up losing some one you really care for.
2006-11-09 08:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by lina b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it means you can't live without eachother. this could be good or bad, however you wish to view it. now, if you are getting tired of him, then maybe its a bad thing. the reason you asked this question was to see what others think, however its really your opinion that matters. good luck, hon. best wishes, and the rude people who answer this question negatively should back off.
2006-11-09 08:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Yuggy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does it feel? Good or bad? There's your answer!
And by the way, it does NOT mean that you can't live without each other, and if I'm rude for saying so, so be it.
2006-11-09 08:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bad cuz it seems like u guys havent figure out what s or where is the problem in the relationship
u need to sit down and talk about ur differences and worked on it
2006-11-09 08:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can't be that good if you keep breaking up with each other. Be friends but move on with a new relationship where there is more maturity with each of you.
2006-11-09 08:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad. Stop revisiting the past.
2006-11-09 08:52:25 · answer #11 · answered by arrizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋